DP is 27 and we've been together for 7 years, we don't live together because we can't afford to so both live with parents. I'm currently still studying so that I can become a teacher.
DP graduated at 22 and ever since has worked for the same large retail company planning kitchens. He is on a 16 hour contract and often does more but his wage is around a pound above minimum wage and he often complains that he is skint. I keep telling him to get another job but any efforts are half-arsed and he only applies for jobs that I find for him - he can't be bothered to sit down and job search himself.
There are other companies where he could do the job that he does now but he says that he doesn't want a job that's commission based as the commission isn't guaranteed. This annoys me because he is on around 11k a year and the basic salary for these jobs is around 18k which is much more than he is on.
DP has a car on finance which costs around £320 a month and uses up most of his wage when fuel is factored in too.
He can't cook, doesn't know how to use the washing machine and never does anything around his parents house and doesn't pay any rent either. He is an only child and his mum really enables his behaviour.
I know I have a year until I will be working full time but I'm worried that when I am working full time DP will still be the same and If we want to move in together I'll be the one paying for everything and doing everything around the house. I've tried to talk to him about how I feel and he just gets moody and doesn't change.
I wouldn't be bothered about his low wages if he was actively trying to find another job and acted like an adult by doing household chores. I just feel like he can't be bothered and I don't want to spend my future working hard in order to prop up another person.