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Constant text messages

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zukiecat · 10/08/2017 17:03

Ok, so DD2 has been very mentally unwell these past few months, she's been in hospital five times since the middle of June, which has been a nightmare, I'm a single parent and don't really have much support in anything, I just have to get on with it

My problem is, and I don't know if I'm being an ungrateful, selfish antisocial cow, but I have one friend who texts me every single day to ask how we are. Now it's lovely that she is concerned, and I get that, I really do, but I get very tired easily as I also have health issues. I always answer the texts, but she can start at say 1pm, and at 8pm she's still texting me, I just find it all a bit too much, sometimes I just want to sit, to read a book, watch to, or just have some simple quiet time to myself.

If I don't answer within 20 minutes I get a flurry of texts asking where I am, what am I doing, am I ok, and it's all just too much sometimes

I work part time, and if I say I'm off to work, there's always texts from her waiting for me at teabreak time

Am I just being a total cow here, but I don't want texts every single day although I do appreciate her concern, she's the kind that takes offence easily and will fly off the handle if I tell her not to text maybe quite so often

What should I do please?

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sonjadog · 12/08/2017 11:53

I would have to say that my friend has never really gotten the message. It´s sort of an ongoing situation to be managed. But it doesn´t annoy me any more because I only answer when I want to, so in a way in its resolved...

zukiecat · 12/08/2017 12:21

That's maybe more like what will happen sonja

If I can manage the texts better and only answer when I want to then that will make a difference Smile

I'm pretty pissed off though about the "You're not getting texts again, I sent one at 16.33, so I've sent you the exact same one via WhatsApp"

I think that's really cheeky, and makes me feel even more hounded!

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