ARE YOU SHIFTING ME?!

[Jessiecat27]

I'm fucking livid. Oh's 'D'gm came round yesterday, we've recently moved house and they both tidied and organised whilst I was out (really appreciated it) just gone to look for my council tax letter to send off along with a few other important documents and I can't find them anywhere. Checked in the bin and all of my bank statements, hospital letters, receipts for recently bought items I needed to keep have been shredded. No sign of anything else so I'm assuming they were also shredded and are in the bin outside! Would you go round to a family members house and bin their important documents?! I've never been so angry in my life.

Jammydodger81: Please try not to use such vulgar language

This is exactly what you said Martin. The only vulgar language used was the word fuck. Please explain how this comment wasn't about swearing and answer my earlier question regarding me being the only one expected to not do this?

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius
He says not, @RortyCrankle. He is proud of it though.

I bet.

I note he says 'would of'. I judged.

Oh dear, then there's really no hope. Of course you judged as would I and as obviously guilty - off with his head! (or another part of his anatomy)

jammy
You are wasting your time. He needs to mansplain to us silly women on how to behave like ladeez but he doesn't need to mansplain his actions, cos you know, he is a man who obviously believes he is superior and therefore inscrutable. 😉

Sit him down with the shreddings and a roll of Sellotape.

hatsoncats

I actually LOL'ed at this. Classic response. 😂

I've loved this post! Sorry OP but the whole Martin #smugtwat factor has been rather funny.
From now on can we please call any encounters with a smug, self-righteous twat 'doing a Martin'. And please, who signs off a post, your names at the top!

OP if it was your OH who shredded your letters - stamp down on his behaviour hard because he has no right to dictate what paperwork of yours that you choose to keep. Don't be messing around saying you'll burn his dinner, let him know that he's fucked up big time and that you are one mightily pissed off woman!

Did he think you were waiting for his consent to destroy your own post?

Lweji: a forum is meeting or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged. So yes, this is a forum.

Martin:
MN isn't "a" forum, it's MN(!).

joke

a thing that someone says to cause amusement or laughter, especially a story with a funny punchline.

I detest 'Best' almost as much as I abhor 'my bad'

Just saying.

Yes this thread has a nasty whiff of mansplaining about it.

Come on laydeez, hup-to-it, why haven't you organised everything in neat files, thats what you were put on earth to do.

Umm, @MartinJD, I think we need to have a little chat about your unacceptable use of vulgar language....

*Yesterday 17:20 MartinJD

Most weddings are shit and boring and no, i don't think you are being unreasonable. There seems to be some odd social taboo about saying no to going to weddings in the UK. It's your choice, and you made it. No excuses necessary.*

Ohhh dear - hypocritical much, @MartinJD!!

@MartinJD

You are a very goady gentleman.

Cheers!

MKC

No excuses, you don't shred other people's paperwork without checking, YANBU- I'd be furious too

Tut tut, naughty naughty language.

Feigns shock, pass the smelling salts

Where has Martin gone?? How is poor, fluffy-headed little me supposed to know what to think without a big, stwong manly man mansplaining it all to me?