if you take drugs you risk dying and leaving your child motherless..it's a fact
No it isn't a fact, and I doubt very much if you could produce any evidence to back up your claim.
I can't stand being in the company of coke users, they become the most annoying twats, but they are not risking their lives on a daily basis. Those little lines of powder turn you into an arrogant arsehole who is funding an evil worldwide trade, not a risk taking daredevil.
A few years ago forensic tests were done on hundreds of £20 notes. There was not one to be found in circulation that didn't have traces of coke on it. It's prevalent across our society.
You need to get your facts right OP or you can't expect support for your point of view.
There's lots of different kinds of drugs, the range out there is incredibly diverse and by no means do they all put lives at risk.
Magic mushrooms are being trialled in depression treatment, and paracetamol has just been found to be more damaging than ever originally understood.
Look at any city centre in a weekend evening and you'll see ambulances lined up ready for all the alcohol casualties who will, without doubt, need urgent treatment.
I've worked doing first aid at large music events for years and it's the overuse of alcohol that causes more problems than anything else.
Your friend sounds annoying and irresponsible and not a good parent, but she's not risking her life unless she's out there driving a vehicle under the influence.