Ok, so I already know that I am BU, but am I BVVVU? Is it really SO bad?
Basically I had plans for tonight to go to my parents and stay over with DS who's a toddler. DP didn't want to come as he wants to be up early tomorrow to paint the walls.
Last night after work I ended up going for some drinks with colleagues, I never ever do this and since having DS I go out rarely. I rang DP who was fine about it. Things got a bit out of hand last night and I ended up very drunk, to the point where I got in at 2am and was vomiting. All day today I've been throwing up and feeling very. Dry sorry for myself.
I've cancelled stayed over at my parents (they're having a party) as I just can't face t and feel horrendous. DM has been understanding and told me not to worry about it. But DP is absoltely furious with me because he says he wanted a night in on his Xbox and I've 'ruined it'. I only made the plan to go to my parents 3 days ago, and I didn't know how much he wanted me out of the way tonight before I cancelled. I get that he's disappointed, but I've apologised countless times and said I'll go to bed soon as DS is in bed, so he can still have his Xbox night. I'm getting the silent treatment, it's been going on for hours. He's being really cold and full on sulking. He 'nipped out' earlier in a strop and he's now been gone almost 2 hours. I rang him before to see when he'd be back and he said "I'll be out aslong as it takes." And cut me off.
Is me cancelling really so bad? I could understand if DM was upset as it's her I've cancelled on! But is DP BU to be so annoyed with me?