To be annoyed at DP on his birthday?
PricklyCactuss · 21/07/2017 08:24
For context DP and I have been together 2 years and live together.
Today is DP birthday, I woke up earlier planning to give him his presents, breakfast (TMI: morning bday sex) but he's gone the bloody gym. Like he does every single morning and evening. He wouldn't even usually be gone at this time to the gym yet. It's whatever moving on.
He also put up a picture on Instagram this morning 'twerk for me it's my birthday'. I've just called him on this via text yet to receive a reply but floored how disrespectful this is.
He's made arrangements to go out later straight after work so I won't even see him and he's made plans for saturdsy with family that he's not invited me to when I'm usually invited to do things with them. (Group of cousins our age)
He works 7 days a week 9-7 and gym before and after work so all I see of him is a cranky worked out tired person Ready got bed. And he's hardly wanting to spend his birthday seeing me at all. AIBU to be annoyed at the above
PricklyCactuss · 21/07/2017 08:36
Because our relationship isn't usually like this. He made lovely plans for my birthday, we go out and eat, date nights at the cinema about once a month. But I just felt like he had other people he wanted to see today. (Gym mates this morning and he's seeing them later to go out)
RhubardGin · 21/07/2017 08:53
He still should have invited you, even just to watch! Are they going out for a meal afterwards?
It's strange, it's almost as if he's going out if his way not to spend time with you on his birthday.
When you see him tell him his actions have really hurt your feelings no presents or birthday sex for him!
SantasLittleMonkeyButler · 21/07/2017 09:00
If he works 7 days a week from 9-7 & goes to the gym before & after work every day, how have you got to the point of forming a strong enough relationship to live together after only 2 years? .
What did the "twerk for me" mean? Is he inviting women to send him photos of their arses or something?
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