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Charlie Gard 9

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muckypup73 · 14/07/2017 20:53

Hi guys new thread.

Let's try to keep this one as sensible and measured as the past 7 threads have been.

Please note the MNHQ comment on thread number 7.

"Hi everyone,

..... We had to remove several parent-blaming posts, so we'd like to ask folk not to do this. We think we can all agree that this is a truly awful time for all involved and we just wouldn't wish it on anyone. If there's anything we could do with more of, it's support. We'll continue to remove reported posts that break TGs (if we've missed something, do feel free to let us know).

If we have to make too many deletions, we will need to look at removing the thread; which is the last thing we wish to do.

Thanks all"

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smilingmind · 15/07/2017 17:49

If he is the parents' spokesperson surely he wouldn't say anything not previously approved by then.
This whole circus is getting surreal but let them continue as the more they do the more they discredit themselves.
I wonder what the US doctor's reaction will be to this.

TinselTwins · 15/07/2017 17:51

My guess, and it's just a guess, is that fitting Charlie with a trachey would be about as useful as fitting an unconscious amputee with a false limb!

Except with the added risk of being an invasive procedure.

TheFairyCaravan · 15/07/2017 17:52

I think the words they are looking for are "thank you very much for working tirelessly and keeping our son alive for the past 8 months."

I'm bloody gobsmacked at their cheek, tbh.

Sirzy · 15/07/2017 17:53

They have 1.2 million at least sat in the bank waiting to treat him. Hardly poor are they! Not sure what this has to do with money

Sirzy · 15/07/2017 17:54

I wish the nurses could record just a couple of hours of what they are having to do to keep him alive. The hard work they are doing just to keep him in his current state.

TinselTwins · 15/07/2017 17:54

I predict this latest stunt will get people's backs up. I'm just waiting for Fathers for Justice to weigh in now.

They already joined the CA protest outside the court.

C&C should take a real look at just who is making up their echo chamber.
They're surrounded by wrong'uns!

TinselTwins · 15/07/2017 17:54

I predict this latest stunt will get people's backs up. I'm just waiting for Fathers for Justice to weigh in now.

They already joined the CA protest outside the court.

C&C should take a real look at just who is making up their echo chamber.
They're surrounded by wrong'uns!

TinselTwins · 15/07/2017 17:54

I predict this latest stunt will get people's backs up. I'm just waiting for Fathers for Justice to weigh in now.

They already joined the CA protest outside the court.

C&C should take a real look at just who is making up their echo chamber.
They're surrounded by wrong'uns!

TinselTwins · 15/07/2017 17:54

I predict this latest stunt will get people's backs up. I'm just waiting for Fathers for Justice to weigh in now.

They already joined the CA protest outside the court.

C&C should take a real look at just who is making up their echo chamber.
They're surrounded by wrong'uns!

TinselTwins · 15/07/2017 17:54

I predict this latest stunt will get people's backs up. I'm just waiting for Fathers for Justice to weigh in now.

They already joined the CA protest outside the court.

C&C should take a real look at just who is making up their echo chamber.
They're surrounded by wrong'uns!

TinselTwins · 15/07/2017 17:54

I predict this latest stunt will get people's backs up. I'm just waiting for Fathers for Justice to weigh in now.

They already joined the CA protest outside the court.

C&C should take a real look at just who is making up their echo chamber.
They're surrounded by wrong'uns!

NellieBuff · 15/07/2017 17:55

I have just listened to the statement on sky news.
I really do feel for Charlie’s parents – I really do but after this statement I am being to lose patience with them. GOSH staff must have the patience of saints they really must and how they keep going in this shocking situation I really do not know. My hat off to GOSH staff.

I can only think that Charlie’s parents (who will not be eating or sleeping properly – quite understandably) have gotten so caught up in the false hope that Charlie will lead that a normal life (egged on by CA) that they have lost their grip on reality.
I hope this sad situation comes to a conclusion soon for everyone’s sake,

BeyondDrinksAndKnowsThings · 15/07/2017 17:57

Sorry tinsel, I didn't catch that. Who are they surrounded by?

Wink
AlabamaShakes · 15/07/2017 17:59

I don't care if this goes against the spirit of mumsnet but it just smacks of throwing a tantrum when things don't go their way.

I'm basing my opinion on the live tweets from the court room re. Demanding to be allowed in the clinicians meeting, choosing the chair etc

Maudlinmaud · 15/07/2017 17:59

Tinsel I read 3 of your posts before I clicked it was multiple's of the same. Reminds me of the time I tried to get out of my car with the seat belt still on.

TinselTwins · 15/07/2017 18:00

Sorry don't know what happened there Blush

But yeah, FFJ have already joined the vulchers using this poor family for their own reasons

TinselTwins · 15/07/2017 18:02

I'm basing my opinion on the live tweets from the court room re. Demanding to be allowed in the clinicians meeting, choosing the chair etc

I think, when life spirals out of your control, as theirs had, you cling onto any way you can control things, suddenly things like chosing your chair can be symbolic when you're losing it inside IYKWIM, and the result can be unreasonable tantrums

Lightlovelife · 15/07/2017 18:04

I don't think I would want to be their (pro bono) lawyer right now.

Sirzy · 15/07/2017 18:04

I think this statement just shows how badly advised they are on all issues sadly. Any logical common sense approach has long since gone.

AlabamaShakes · 15/07/2017 18:07

Well quite, Tinsel. This is exactly the reason why they shouldn't be allowed complete control of their terminally ill son.

All reason has vanished

Maudlinmaud · 15/07/2017 18:09

What is crystal clear is the family do not trust the hospital and believe they are preventing them seeking treatment elsewhere. Their statement yesterday praising the hospital and the care Charlie has and is receiving seems empty now.

SimplyNigella · 15/07/2017 18:10

FGS they are hideously ill advised, instead of appreciating and respecting the judge's gentle handling they seem hell bent on going against his every advice. I imagine the doctors are dreading the Monday meeting if this is the stance the parents are taking.

Holliewantstobehot · 15/07/2017 18:11

I can't see how any private hospital would have acted any differently. Surely they too would have had to act in Charlie's best interests, passed treatment through an ethics committee, gone to court etc;. The law doesn't change just cause you're not on the NHS.
Not to mention the fact that there is no private hospital who could offer Charlie's care. When Sophie Wessex's daughter was ill at birth they transferred to NHS for that reason.
But then ukip don't really like the NHS.

smilingmind · 15/07/2017 18:12

Article from the US

The Right Is Turning the Charlie Gard Tragedy into a Case Against Single-Payer Health Care. It’s the Opposite

www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2017/07/05/the_right_is_turning_the_charlie_gard_tragedy_into_a_case_against_single.html

AlabamaShakes · 15/07/2017 18:13

I'll add that, through being in a a very traumatic situation myself, I understand the paranoia involved when all you're trying to do is protect a vulnerable loved one. So every mistake or miss step is scrutinised, even if minor. It's immensely stressful and looking back I think some of my thoughts were skewed. Hence why I sought councelling and help from my GP.

But this is paranoia and delusion on an epic scale. And it seems some members of their family are fuelling this. Shame on them.

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