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AIBU?

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Barbara Windsor

924 replies

Patriciathestripper1 · 14/07/2017 18:08

Apparently the whole country is waiting to celebrate her birthday (according to ITV)
Well Dh certainly isn't!
He was a big fan when he was a lad, and went to see her in a pantomime.
Waiting at the stage door after the show for an autograph with other star struck youngsters, she came out and told them all to Piss Off and clear off home Shock
He said she was the most horrible, rude person and that he never watched her in anything again.
Which celebs have you met that didn't match up to the pedestal you had them on?

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Nightshirt · 15/07/2017 16:09

Barack Obama... major swoon here - polite, charming and so smart

So glad - comes across as a great person.

southeastdweller · 15/07/2017 16:16

But why? I really don't get the need to approach famous people. Especially at times when they're not inviting attention

I don't know, but it happens and has done for decades. I'm not saying it's right, but celebs know it's part of what they choose to do.

Nightshirt · 15/07/2017 16:17

If someone famous is doing a meet and greet type thing then it's obviously ok to approach them. But when they're out and about minding their own business, why would you?. Feel the same as you.

SueMacartney · 15/07/2017 16:28

But not everybody goes into their line of work intending or expecting to be famous. Granted, lots do, but for others it is a side they just have to endure. Also you never know what's going to be a hit/bring you massive fame. It can be unexpected. So to then expect them to be 100% smiles 24/7 is a bit much, imo.

Minstrelsareyum · 15/07/2017 16:32

I met Sir Richard Attenborough at a reception at The Royal Star and Garter home for retired service personnel in the 1990s. I asked him if I could "tempt" him to a chocolate profiterole or cream meringue from the platter I was circulating the room with and he grasped my hand and said "oooooh.....you temptress you!!!" Utterly lovely man.

YouTheCat · 15/07/2017 16:39

Nightshirt, I feel the same. All the people I have autographs or pictures of were at conventions. The ones I met whilst working in pubs I just served and let them get on with their evening.

ShelaghTurner · 15/07/2017 16:54

Would never approach someone on their own time, have only ever spoken to them when they’re working. I firmly believe that when people are off duty then they’re off limits.

popcornetto · 15/07/2017 17:03

Wizadora (anyone remember her?) was utterly vile. She threw an iron at one of the crew when he knocked on her door to give her 15 minute call

Haha this is my fave so far!

LadyFairfaxSake · 15/07/2017 17:03

Jethro was absolutely lovely when I met him. Richard Briers thanked ME for stopping HIM & chatted for a few minutes. Tom Baker patted DD on the head at Leicester Square tube, he was exactly as you'd imagine.

MargaretTwatyer · 15/07/2017 17:03

Funnily enough I worked with Madge's son and met her a few times and she was great.

I'm not really talking about people saying fuck off. But a lot of people seem to think just saying no is rude. As a lot of people on MN say, no is a complete sentence. I don't think they have to explain why every time they can't.

I think a lot of the attitudes on here show exactly why they don't like it tbh. 'Just because you're famous you owe me and you're obliged to drop everything when I demand.'

Coming across that sort of attitude must be draining. And some of the things on here deserved being told to fuck off to be honest. Approaching someone in a hotel for example is really not on.

Thetimestheyareachangingnow · 15/07/2017 17:15

Patriciathestripper - I've not RTFT yet but wanted to let you know that Bill Oddie is patron of a fab greyhound rescue charity. Therefore he is indeed a goodie (see what I did there Grin)

deadringer · 15/07/2017 17:17

I have been reading this thread with great interest and I have just remembered one. Not me but dd1 was in LA a few years ago and saw Justin timberlake in a nightclub. He invited her and her mates into the vip section and chatted to them for ages. She said he was absolutely lovely, friendly and down to earth.

limitedperiodonly · 15/07/2017 17:19

I'm torn. My job is to interview famous people. I have only ever asked for an autograph once out of hundreds of people - it was Eric Cantona, and my nephew was a huge fan. I said if the interview was going well, I'd do it because it meant so much to him. It did and Cantona was happy to sign my nephew's picture book of him in his Man U pomp with a lovely personalised message.

But otherwise I don't because I am there as a professional, not a fan, even if I admire the person's work and like their public image. I am there for business, just as they are. I don't expect to be anyone's best friend but I expect politeness. Lots of people don't get that.

Lots of celebrities do expect you ask for autographs and bow and scrape to them. Johnny Depp and Bruce Willis did. Depp did it as kind of a joke but Willis didn't. He was humourless and insisted on being treated as A STAR. Robert De Niro was the same. Yes, they are. However, their shit still stinks the same as mine.

I've never approached a famous person in the street, aside from the things we all do as ordinary people, like standing in a queue and chatting or bumping into each other on a crowded pavement. If they want to get up in the air about that, as some people have done, then that's their problem, not mine.

Neither do I have tons of sympathy with the view that famous people should not be approached. I can see how it can be annoying but it's an occupational hazard - a bit like being a uniformed police officer and being asked the time.

PS Mariah Carey really liked my shoes. I was unsettled because her taste is a bit dodgy. I consoled myself that she probably didn't like them but was trying to be nice Grin.

zara020 · 15/07/2017 17:23

I have been really pleased to read all the love for Zoe Ball, as I've met her twice now a few years apart and found her to be an absolute love both times, very kind and funny. I'm listening to her on radio 2 at the moment which I think she is fabulous on, and particularly brave of her after her recent loss.

A horror: mark Owen of take that, what a stuck of tosser he was.

stonecircle · 15/07/2017 17:28

Neither do I have tons of sympathy with the view that famous people should not be approached. I can see how it can be annoying but it's an occupational hazard - a bit like being a uniformed police officer and being asked the time.

Nothing like that at all. A policeman in uniform is on duty. When they're off duty they can go out in civvies and not expect to be bothered. Are you saying that celebs are always expected to be on duty? Confused

Eastpoint · 15/07/2017 17:31

I've met Miranda Hart & she was lovely. Jason Orange & Howard from TT were both at an album launch I went to & were v nice.

Beverly Johnson, the US model, was incredibly gracious and great fun, we went to a family party where she was a guest.

Claire Balding is v normal.

Alfieisnoisy · 15/07/2017 17:49

Professor Green....can I just say...one of THE nicest people I have ever met.
Kathy Lette....fabulous as well. Nice chat with her about the interesting issues you face when your child is autistic

Alfieisnoisy · 15/07/2017 17:51

Prof Mick Aston of Time Team...brilliant man. Came and did a talk to a local archaeology society for just travel and accommodation. We did take him out for a curry after though ....fekt rude not to feed him too. Great laugh and good company

slinkysaluki · 15/07/2017 17:51

Fig I forgot met Paul Hollywood he parked his Aston Martin next to my car in car park. He approached him. He was on his way to get a suit for TV awards he said. Very nice but not as tall as I thought (I am 6ft though) !

slinkysaluki · 15/07/2017 17:52

Oh dear fig ? And I approached him Blush

limitedperiodonly · 15/07/2017 17:53

Not exactly stonecircle. But having people talk to you in the street when you are famous is an occupational hazard. People think they know you - especially if you appear in their living rooms every Saturday night. Of course, if they are rude then a rude response is fine, but most people just goofily say: 'I love your show.'

So I don't think it's okay to expect to be left in glorious isolation or tell people who like your work to fuck off. None of us is a saint, but I still think that's a bit off. A polite smile and a 'thank you' is all that's required.

slinkysaluki · 15/07/2017 17:57

Have seen lots of people whilst out, Rod Stewart, Vic Reeves, Kenneth Williams when I worked In west end, wouldn't approach though, sometimes it's not appropriate like when they are with their families etc.

limitedperiodonly · 15/07/2017 17:59

I loved it when Daniel Day Lewis announced he was retiring rather than just stopping work like the rest of us do.

LenaLoveWitch · 15/07/2017 18:01

Was at Heathrow once in a stressed state as my mother was ill and there was barely time to get my connection flight. Was trying to keep it together. Airline did sort it and the lady behind me (linda robson from birds of a feather) gave me hug without saying a word. Lovely

limitedperiodonly · 15/07/2017 18:13

I was on a beach next to John Paul Gaultier when two teenagers came over to say how much they admired him. He chatted to them about fashion and gave advice about breaking into design while doodling. It turned out he'd given them both his sketches on club flyers. They were so happy. It was 15 minutes out of his day. He could have told them to fuck off, but why?