WORKzilla3

[famtastic]

By request!

You go girl (in American accent of course!)

It was a mighty WORKout that me and DD3 enjoyed and I'm pretty sure the other two will have made up injuries tomorrow when I pick up!

Why oh why did you not save her texts??

That would have really put her in the shit for her bald-faced lies to all of them, slagging you off in hopes of sympathy for herself and hatred for you.

I think the mumsnet thread has the most all anyway!! Just redirect gossips this way!

I really hope that the yard mums believed you fam

I actually cant believe the bullshitting cow! Amazes me how thick skinned some people can be!

She actually is crazy. And new extensions arent cheap either but they were prepared to have you take care of their monsters for free!

lol I love all your posts, I'm not the best at tech so don't know how to do personal replies but I am reading them all.

Pick up was interesting in a ground open me up way! I was a bit later than normal due to dd needing a very long poo just as we were leaving!

Get there and she's there!! in full rant mode, she sees me and her face was like thunder. She and everyone came over and she starts saying that I've been slagging her off and I'm a liar! And I actually started laughing think it was nerves though! I said I hadn't told any lies and in fact I'd left a lot of the story out. She was saying how I've been ignoring her texts to make peace and put this misunderstanding behind us, and that I'm childish for not answering.

I just said I hadn't done anything wrong and she shouldn't of just assumed I'd be her childcare when I never said I would or wanted to do it! She looked really embarrassed at this as everyone was listening. I was so embarrassed myself! I said that I haven't been childish at all but I've blocked her number because we was going in circles and that she was being quite nasty at the end. Anyway I said I'm not prepared to discuss it again that there is no way I'd do it now even though I wasn't I may of considered helping her out a bit before all this.

Another mum asked what she was going to do and she said I have no idea now I'm totally stuck. No where seem to have spaces that I've tried thanks to you ( pointing at me) well I wanted to say you should of sorted it ages ago you fucking moron! But I didn't I just said I hope you find something or someone else! Please leave me out of it from now on. And I got ds and left. I wasn't as strong this afternoon but I did make my point while pathetically trying to not cry lol! I am a crier when cross and embarrassed. I think she was trying her best to catch up with me on the way home but we practically flew home I actually can't remember most the walk back, I just wanted to get in the house! I won't talk to her again now il just blank her and when I next see her probably be a lot stronger as I didn't expect to see her today or for her to lie to my face.

Good for you Fam

It looks as though she's got the message. At last.

You rock Fam - stay strong xx

Christ - she really is a piece of work OP. You've done so well not to lose your cool with her. What an absolute cow she is - lying about your yesterday, all the while trying to manipulate you into doing what she wants, then railing against you again today in the playground. You've been calm and reasonable though now, even to her face, while she's ranted and raved. I think anyone who witnessed that will draw their own conclusions. and for you!

Wow! Just Wow! I'm so impressed at how you handled it. I think you are another MumsNetter who needs a slap up steak dinner for triumphing over yet another brass-necked user. (See WORKzilla threads). 🍾⭐️⭐️⭐️for you.

She's rich calling you a liar! Well done OP

Well done you. Really proud of you.

I think all the savvy mums will know the score. Who in their right mind says they'll have someone else's kids for a six bloody week holiday

If she starts again I'd try to remember these points - she was texting manically at 2am, you had no agreement at all for regular childcare just one day AND If it hadn't been for you texting to confirm she'd be up shit creek IN the holidays. At least she has some time to salvage childcare

She is a dick. Don't get upset about it, she is wrong, rude and a selfish shit. Blank her entirely from now on -if she approaches you walk away or say firmly 'I am not discussing anything' and turn away. Alternatively, be like me and stand with your headphones in or on the phone!

Excellent point aaaaargh!

Never mind love, your home now, you did yourself proud, she's a piece of work that one. Onwards and forwards, she's shown her true colours, and the other mum's will have noted it. 🍷🍷🍷💐⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

If she dares to mention this in school again, talk to the head about her harassing you. It is utterly not on and she needs telling.

Or you can embarrass the shit out of her if she keeps approaching you and say 'PLEASE STOP HARRASSING ME OR I WILL CONTACT THE POLICE. I HAVE ALL YOUR TEXTS FROM 2AM AND MY NEIGHBOURS SAW YOU SCREAMING ON MY DOORSTEP. GO AWAY'

you did great
dont cut yourself down
you are an amazing mom.
it takes time to be assertive. long term.
my dh would tell me i was't assertive enough for years.
now he tells people hes afraid of me
have a cup,hug your rockin boy

and it gets easier everytime you stick up for yourself

She really is totally delusional isn't she!

Well done Fam, it must have felt like an ambush, you did so well. It will blow over, she should by now realised her tactic won't work on you.

What a journey, well done

Thanks for the cake, it was Frozen

What a fucking using bitch she is!! If she tries it again just tell her she shouldn't have used up all her money and holiday paying for Disney!

Well done - I'd have been inclined to say 'how is it my fault you assumed I'd look after your children for the whole holidays without even being consulted - you're a fucking liberty taker and had this not blown up now, you'd probably just have tried to sucker me into being your personal slave so you don't have to take your own responsibilities in hand - fuck off go find yourself a different person with mug across their forehead bitch

It's also interesting that none of the other Mums are falling over themselves with offers of help isn't it?