Workzilla update..

[famtastic]

Ok so she sent me a few more messages about how they just assumed I knew what they needed and didn't think they needed to spell it out for me! Saying that they do not know how they are expected to pay for childcare that they hadn't budgeted for as they was relying on me to provide it. And I shouldn't of said I could help if I wasn't willing to do so.

I've not replied to any messages

I hope she's coming round to apologise for her self-entitled demanding texts, and of course you won't be doing any free childcare for her now. If she does turn up its probably to bully you into submitting to her will and giving over your holiday mornings to her.

She's blown it, even the Monday. Nobody speaks to you like that especially if they want a favour. But a favour never = a full summer holidays worth of childcare for anyone & she knows it, she's just taking the piss and trying to railroad you.

Brace yourself, you may have to boot her out of your house.

some background music for when she comes....

Well I have a feeling this thread and the other one will soon be zapped....

I thought your post was aimed at me for a moment there @MrsChopper

'Face you, what are you 12? Grow up. The answer is no. It will always be no now due to your abusive texts. Don't bother coming round you'll only embarrass yourself. I'm blocking you now'.

Now I'm no psych....but she sounds like she's got a raging personality disorder

I know people this cheeky exist. A good friend of mine has been taken advantage of by one recently.
It started as a play date. Then another the same day, following week. Then she was asked to take the child to an activity her child did and the parent would pick up after, except they didn't and my friend had to drop off the child.
Then it was "Actually, can you have him that afternoon every week?"
She said no! But knowing my friend, she said it very politely and the brass neck mum heard yes.
My friend received a phonecall from the school to ask why she'd not picked this child up as brass neck mum had said that's what was happening.
So my friend gave in.
Some while later she asked brass neck mum if she could not have the child one particular week as there was a school trip and her son would be tired.
"No, I can't get time off work."
Except, as it turned out, the dad had had the afternoon off work.
Shit has really hit the fan recently as my friend has fallen rather ill and simply can't cope with the arrangement any more.
Brass neck mum is apparently fuming. I guess she thinks my friends health is less important than free care for her child, who's behavior is becoming rather like his mothers.

This is not good enough - she's had an hour to eat dinner - I assume she's not at the Fat Duck eating one of Heston's 20 course tasting menus?

MumIs why exactly....(please don't confirm my first thought)

Where is she??

A 'few favours' in the holidays is minding the kids for the odd day at the last minute if there's an unexpected crisis or the usual childcare has fallen through.

Not several hours a day, every day, for weeks on end.

Unpaid.

That is what is known as 'taking the piss'.

Not placemarking, no, definitely not

Wow, that escalated. How do you expect her to pay for them? You don't expect anything, her kids aren't anything to do with you 😂 Love this WORK thing. she sounds a bit rough tbh OP.

She's frigging coconuts!! 😱

I've just eaten an entire family bag of popcorn reading this thread. Unbelievable. Update please OP!! 😃

Hahaha I do apologise CaveMum

CherryChasingDotMuncher :)

She needs to turn up soon, Love Island starts in an hour

Ooh Tinselsounds rough. The one I had dealings with was very nasty too. I was on the receiving end for long enough but snapped eventually. I have a long fuse but when I blow I BLOW!

No point attempting to sort this out cordially.

She's way too unpleasant for that.

What the hell she on? And what she eating an all you can eat buffet...do you think she'll turn up?

Love the childcare castings! Do that. Plus unsocial hours surcharge!

Stuff love island I wanna see about binky and jps baby @five

Do people actually make this stuff up? lol

Yes, they do sometimes OP.

Ok my very first placemark! Just stunned!

This has got to be the fastest growing thread ever, its filling up quicker than I can read it.

Any sign yet??