Workzilla update..

[famtastic]

Ok so she sent me a few more messages about how they just assumed I knew what they needed and didn't think they needed to spell it out for me! Saying that they do not know how they are expected to pay for childcare that they hadn't budgeted for as they was relying on me to provide it. And I shouldn't of said I could help if I wasn't willing to do so.

I've not replied to any messages

Why can't you just tell her not to come round, you won't be changing your mind as it's pointless. If she continues to text just tell her you'll vo to the police for harassment

This had made me feel really shouty and fighty.

I'm actually at the stage of wanting to personally fight this woman, and I am a major confrontation wimp.

Elephant I'll hold your coat for you!

She got you to engage OP - turn off your phone unless you're videoing her doorstep meltdown for our perusal and relax! Enjoy your evening. Nothing more frustrating than being ignored when someone wants attention - and she's a total drama queen.

WORKzilla

#proud

Stick to your guns OP, but make sure you keep us updated. Pretty please!

Why would she compromise? It's not her kids, they are nothing to do with the op, she should not and does not need to be this woman's unpaid childminder, exactly what is in that for the op? Even more gob smacked now.

Who would like to be a fly on WORKzilla's wall? Poor children.

Two grown women texting. Can't she just come 'round & you sort it? There's been a misunderstanding, that's all. Her DH was obviously asked to make arrangements with you & didn't do that. Surely you can both come to a compromise

WTF?! What sort of compromise do you have in mind?

Wth? She's officially deluded!

Does her entitlement know no bounds?

Appalling behaviour from her and her husband. Well done you for standing up to her, you're probably one of the first people that have if she bullies people like this. I'm rooting for your husband now!

I like @Chilver 's reply suggestion.

Surely you can both come to a compromise?

Do you understand what the word compromise means?
It means a situation that benefits both people
It doesn't benefit the OP to have batshit's kids at all
What comprimise is there?
It's a no, Batshit needs to leave OP the fuck alone (but kinda enjoying that she's not )

She's batshit!

If Juicy is the self-entitled cow then she really needs to read this thread and the other and see that not one person thinks the OP should take on any of this childcare.

Haha thanks fam, we all sound like we know the teenage lingo makes me giggle. She works as a receptionist and has an iwatch so I'm guessing that's how she replies or she's allowed her phone, no idea to be honest

I am not wrong
You did not,at any point,ask me to look after your children
Therefore how can I be letting you down?

Oh sorry you expected me to read your mind about when you wanted me to have them, you did not verbally communicate that to me.
Once again, I am not wrong, I am not at fault

There's fuck all for OP to compromise about, whichever daft bugger wrote that.

This thread needs to go into classics. That woman is just insane.

Anyone else want to bet she pisses off her colleagues at WORK by droning on about how much she has on at HOME looking after her KIDS?

Kinkyafro= WORKzilla

Please tell her you work around your children and her job shouldn't come before her kids. It's a six week holiday so her and hubby can take two weeks each and the other two they can go to holiday club or stay at home on their own.

Also ask her when she's next off work as you could do with a bit of free childcare!

I bet she's one of those people who thinks that you get to stay at home because of people like her who WORK and therefore you owe her something back. She probably reads the Daily Mail too. And says "boys will be boys" a lot

"Dear Entitled Cheeky Mare

You are so unreasonable, that we're onto the second thread on mumsnet, and not a single person has yet agreed with you. This is such an amazing and startling achievement that the Guinness Book of Records is making enquiries. Not one single person thinks "an odd favour" in any way implies daily childcare. In fact, the consensus is that you are not only bat shit, but soon likely to be featuring as such in the Daily Fucking Mail.

Lack of organisation on your part is neither my fault nor my responsibility.

Love and kisses
Fucked Off Fam"

You should turn this into a book. I can't believe the cheek of the woman. I wouldn't have had the patience to put it with. I think I would have been very rude to her.