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Sewell61 · 01/07/2017 09:59

Ms has a full time well paid job, Is 300.00 month to much rent? He's threatened to move out. He currently pays 200. But it's not enough to cover everything. I'm disabled & unable to work.
My daughter pays hers no problem. I feel terrible even asking for rent.

OP posts:
Magpiemagpie · 01/07/2017 19:46

OP do you get Pip or DLA
If you do and you get the Care part of it the adult income is disregarded no matter what they earn

I copied this from the website
If you or your partner get disability living allowance (care) or attendance allowance the non dependents income is not counted

www.entitledto.co.uk/help/non-dependants

However HB don't tell you this most of the time and you need to ask for it

Sewell61 · 01/07/2017 19:54

I do get PIP yes I didn't know that thank you Magpiemagpie

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niknac1 · 01/07/2017 20:11

I remember the shock when I became a student and realised all the costs, I don't think £300 will cover food , gas, electricity, water and sewerage, tv licensing, internet, phone line rental, clothes washing , drying, ironing, insurance. Just the launderette costs could be £20 each week.

I think you are not making anything with £300 board, you are more than likely still subsidising him.

Gingernut81 · 01/07/2017 20:11

If I could get accommodation, food & bills for £300 a month I'd be laughing! I paid my aunt £200 a month to live there over 10 years ago. I think he's got a bargain.

Phoebefromfriends · 01/07/2017 20:20

He's got a bargain and should be paying his way. I doubt very much he could find anything cheaper. I hope you get this sorted OP.

Leaspr · 01/07/2017 20:23

Please make sure you apply for the Warm Front Grant funded by the Government too if you don't get this already. You can apply each year through your Utility provider. I think it's about £140 off your bill each year.

Sewell61 · 01/07/2017 20:24

Thank you, me too. He hasn't been back since yesterday I'm gutted. He has it very easy here but I've had enough now

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BoneyBackJefferson · 01/07/2017 23:17

andTakeYourHorseWithYou

in a lot of places around the country £900 will pay for all the bills including food.

FWIW, I think that the OP is correct in taking rent, but only at this rate if it is treated like a house share.

peachgreen · 01/07/2017 23:23

I paid my parents £400 pcm when I stayed with them for a while 6 years ago. I also bought all my own toiletries and groceries for the 3 days I cooked for the family. I thought (and still think) it was a perfectly fair deal!

If he's so unhappy he can move out and you can get a lodger or move to a smaller place with your daughter.

ticketytock1 · 02/07/2017 11:31

Lol tell him to move out then if it's cheaper... he'll be back like a boomerang!

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