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To bake a cake with DD and take it to the mosque?

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PixiePopPops · 19/06/2017 08:56

I know it's a tiny gesture in the grand scheme of things. But I thought maybe baking a cake for the worshippers to eat when they break their fast tonight might be a nice idea? We live a couple of minutes away.

It's just, in other terrorist attacks, there is an immediate outpouring of love and support. Athough it's early, there seems to be a lot less today. Coupled with the biased media reporting. Thought it might be a nice way of showing solidarity and love.

But are they going to be in mourning? Does it seem patronising? I'll absolutely accept if I am BU, please don't flame me.

OP posts:
Dawnedlightly · 21/06/2017 01:36

I said As-salamu alaykum to a delivery man today. I'd never said it for fear of looking like a virtue signalling fool, but I was really humbled by the response- lovely chat. I'm going to keep doing it 💞

itsawonderfulworld · 21/06/2017 01:37

I bet she is! Hi Adele, well done today! (or rather yesterday, I really need to go to bed!

Canary123 · 21/06/2017 02:01

Op, thats a lovely idea, thankyou for your thoughtfulness, its making me well up that others would think about us, at least they ll know not everyone hates muslims.

CatchingBabies · 21/06/2017 02:14

Such a lovely idea! You've inspired me to do the same, I live in a very white British area so my local mosque according to google is 30 minutes away (unless any Muslims in Cheshire are aware of any). I'm going to take something up for Eid, is google correct that it's on Sunday?

genna1310 · 21/06/2017 02:16

Cake makes me happy think it's nice to do, or cookies easier to give out x

MrsPeelyWaly · 21/06/2017 03:58

Catching, it's not sure yet when it is. People won't know until the night before. However, Eid lasts for 3 days so even if you missed the 1st day there's two more for you to chose from.

Thank you 😊

Midnight0 · 21/06/2017 05:09

OP, definitely do it. I am Muslim myself, and I all the Muslims I know would be grateful to receive such a gift.
It's hard as it is not to feel alienated nowadays, a nice gesture like that would not go unnoticed.

Ddawoud · 21/06/2017 05:45

I'm a Muslim and just but reading your idea ... It's a blessing to have people like you in our world .. Thank you

Ticketybootoo · 21/06/2017 06:53

I think that is very thoughtful and from the TV coverage I've seen I am sure would be seen as a supportive thing to do

OhNotSoSaintMaria · 21/06/2017 08:57

@catchingbabies a lovely idea! I dont know whereabouts you are in Cheshire, but I am in Stockport, so if you need any help finding a mosque I can help. Eid maybe Sunday or Monday, but I'll pm you a poster that is about celebrating the pre-eid night at British Muslim Heritage Centre in Manchester, there will be cake and henna artists, and your gesture would be really and sincerely appreciated, trust me. Flowers

scampimom · 21/06/2017 11:05

Cake is greater than hate.

If that doesn't inspire and cheer you, you're past hope Smile

MrsPeelyWaly · 21/06/2017 11:38

I just saw this post from Aylesbury Mosque on FB. I don't think this is any of our posters as comments on the post say this lovely person had previously baked 700 cupcakes for a Mosque in Dubai.

I think it's very obvious people were delighted with the gesture.

To bake a cake with DD and take it to the mosque?
Willow2017 · 21/06/2017 13:03

Been reading the whole thread.

Well done to all you bakers, what a lovely thing to do. The only way to beat the haters is to prove that the vast majority of us do not hate anyone according to thier colour or creed. We are all people, the same good points and bad points no matter what religion, colour or where we live.

As for the doomsayers - of course there are terrorist cells, of course there are some mosques who will be funded and are radicalising young men, we cannot change that individually unless we know something we can report to the authorities. Terrorism comes in all shapes and sizes and its not confined to Muslims either. It is a world problem, nowhere is safe from it which is a tragedy but its true.

Terrorists do not care who they kill or hurt, they dont care that there would be people of their own country, colour or faith in among the people they are targetting, they dont care about anyone other than their own ideals.

BUT this is not a thread about those people, this is a thread about love and compassion for our neighbours, fellow human beings, who are just as horrified as we are at all the violent events and tragedies of the past couple of months.

Cake isnt going to solve world problems but as we have already seen, one small gesture leads to another and another and if we all had the chance to do one small gesture to let someone know we do not hate them just because of what someone else did, think how many people we could touch to let them know we are all part of this big world, our towns and cities, our local communities.

Lets face it, the majority of Muslims are not going around killing people, they just want to live in peace like the rest of us but because of what some extremists are doing they become the easy targets for cowardly ignorant bigots, many who are just as brainwashed by media, internet and white supremasist crap as any Isis member.

Uzma01 · 21/06/2017 22:23

That is a lovely idea. Don't over think it, it's a beautiful gesture. Flowers

pollymere · 21/06/2017 22:40

I think it's a lovely idea. We get loads of food from our Muslim neighbours during Ramadan. Make sure it doesn't contain any gelatine though.

Deejoda · 24/06/2017 12:08

What Willow2017 said. Spread love not hate/bigotry

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