Bear with me, there's quite a bit of back story and don't want to drip feed.
DH and I have been married for 18 months. Recently we're both shocked to find out we were pregnant. We weren't trying but both happy at the accident.
DH was originally going to go home (North Africa) and spend a year with his elderly parents having not been home in 10 years and then apply for a spousal visa for him to come back.
DH has now decided that he wants to stay in the U.K. and we will apply for that visa over here and visit his parents next year with baby.
Everything seemed to be going well, attending appointments and been buying little bits for new baby.
Had a lovely night last night and when we were lying in bed he suddenly comes out with he's not happy I'm pregnant! Naturally I got a bit upset at this (sobbed my heart out)!
He says I'm not taking his feelings into account as he's had to change his plans and he's upset with that. I'm being unreasonable getting upset!
I've told him to go home then, I never said he had to stay!
He can't see why I got upset with him and I'm starting to question whether it's just me overreacting due to the pregnancy hormones!
Any thoughts?