To ask what are the best things about having a little boy?

[KeplerYellow]

I'm almost 30 weeks pregnant and really excited to be having a boy. I am however getting a bit scared about the whole giving birth part, so trying to focus on the bigger picture. I would love to hear how great it is to have a son to help me concentrate on the positives.

I have 4 sons (all adults now) you will become a football referee, an expert on Formula 1, and realise that all boys are constantly hungry.
I actually, don't think that after the first 2 I could have coped with girls.
I now have fabulous DIL's which is a bonus!

You know what? One good thing about having boys had less to do with how they were than with how I was. It wasn't till I had sons that I genuinely believed men are not ALL dangerous deep down inside (some childhood experiences to blame there). That they too get nervous and unsure and afraid, even if they may have learned to show it differently as adults. Now I look at teenagers in hoodies and I don't think, "thug," I think, aww, poor thing, probably trying to fit in with his friends, hide his spots, and pretend not to be shy -- it's so hard to be a teenager. It's not the boys who're different, it's me.

no-one is stereotyping v.funny

Most kids are great. Great boys are probably similar to great girls?

Just don't believe the shite that is this:-

"Snips and snails, and puppy dogs tails, That's what little boys are made of. Sugar and spice and all things nice, That's what little girls are made of."

Some folk see having a boy as a negative thing. Certainly I had a few 'disappointed for you' looks.

Going on my experience, boys are bloody lovely. Mine are funny, cuddly, considerate, chilled out, great company. Fantastic qualities for either sex, really!

I love having a little boy, he's amazing. He's so affectionate, hugs are the best

He told me the other day in all seriousness that when he was older he would drive me around in his car very carefully, not too fast. He's 3 and it just melted me.

He's just so much fun. He's a crazy ball of untamed energy and I love how he thinks about things. Plus he's very sweet with his baby sister.

I'm off to give him a big hug as this has made me feel soppy.

I have a DD (12) and a DS (7) they are both very different and lovely in their own way, but there is something very special about having a boy.
He drives me crackers and makes me laugh in equal measure. He is very loving and affectionate and also very complementary, he often pays me a compliment.
But... If he can, he will. Climb it, break it, jump off it, climb into it, smear it, he will and boy is he stubborn.
I wouldn't change him tho and although I always wanted girls, I now think all Mums should have a boy

Their affection. It probably applies to girls as well, but the absolutely heart melting moments when they ask for a bedtime story , when they wake up with a smile , when they ask for a mummy cuddle , when they get super excited when they see a fire engine or a police car (and the firemen/police wave back) , their cheeky smiles , the glint in their eyes , their belly laughs , their innocence when they laugh about trumps , when they get really pleased by doing a stand up wee wee , when they're happy to play with a pile of mud and a watering can ... you'll love it !

I think it's easier to clean there arses lol

I have two boys.

I can tell you all the lovely things about having a child if you want. They are very different from each other

I have a boy and a girl - both lovely and both affectionate and cuddly. I don't think there is any attribute I could specify that is gender-specific though.

Standandwait

I agree with that

.... i have learned to appreciate Lego. As I'm sure I would have if I'd had a DD who was obsessed with it.

My three year old boy is so sweet natured. I have just put him to bed, and as I was saying goodnight he said, 'Mummy, a special kiss is coming your way', and kissed me. He is so sensitive and always does and says sweet things like this.
My other boy is not like this, but is also loving in his own way(normally jumping on me pretending to be an animal). He has always been really interested in everything, so I spend my life with him learning new stuff, which is great.
They are both very physical and love outdoor activities, especially in nature.
Enjoy your boys.

I have two boys and am perpetually being asked "are you going to try for a girl?" as though two boys isn't enough, because everyone knows you need the 'full set'. I couldn't be more thrilled to simply have the two of them.

There's no set 'type' that boys conform to; one of mine is academic, a high-achiever but a fucking nut job when it comes to emotions and behaviour; he wouldn't do anything to please anyone but himself and would probably kill us all for a packet of biscuits. He's hilarious, witty and loves to cook; he made us soufflés and pavlova a few weeks ago (he's 6) and reads cookery books like bedtime stories. He is popular (which is ironic, given his lunacy) but at school is an absolute angel. He has the most eccentric dress sense I've seen in a long time, shouts loudly that "there are NO girls toys and boys toys, just toys" whenever anyone says his My Little Pony collection is girly and he rides horses like he was born to do it.

The other is a sports nut, sails through school without ever really pushing himself and would do anything for anyone. His love of nature and his interest in the world has widened my horizons exponentially. His love of Lego means I'm now an official Master Builder (built the Millennium Falcon with no help in 11 hours 34 minutes). His kindness towards others makes me heart burst. His love of Disney films and encyclopaedic knowledge of Disney songs makes me prouder than I can say.

Children can be challenging. They can make life exhausting, they can make you feel 500 years old and they can make you question every decision you make. But they also fill your heart, and life, with a love that doesn't end. From the minute I wake to the minute I sleep, my heart belongs to them. You're going to have an incredible time learning how to be a parent. Congratulations.

I don't think anyone is stereotyping, and Im certainly not - which was implied by my lighthearted 'mummies boys'.

My DS is the definition of what people would think a girl is like. He isn't the usual adventurous, and get stuck in the mud type, that people would think a boy is usually like.

So no I'm not one to stereotype, because all children have different personalities irrespective of their gender. Also I haven't read any posts where people are saying all boys act a certain way, and all girls act another certain way. My DS plays with cars, and dolls, as I'm sure most girls and boys do.
I can't believe such an innocent thread, has been made such a big deal of

Little boys are amazing!!!! Girls are too of course... boys give you 10 times more affection, 10 times less drama and not an ounce of manipulation in sight!

I grew up in a family of girls...two sisters, female only cousins and Aunties...my dad and grandads were the only men. I hate to stereotype but there was always a lot of bitching/arguing and gossiping, between me and my sisters and cousins, my mum and her sisters, me and my sisters with our mum and so on.

I now live in a houseful of men and boys...me, dh and three ds's. the next generation is all boys so far and the dc's have male cousins only who they get on brilliantly with.

Whereas an arguement between friends would generate weeks of drama in my house whilst it was dissected over and over, there's a huge difference in my ds's. It's more 'yeah so James and Sam argued over who fouled in football. James kicked Sam so his brother Adam pushed Sam over and they all got detention. Anyway, that was this morning and they're mates again now'. The end. It's bloody refreshing, I love boys .

Lego! We can both build stuff

The cuddles! My lo tends to give me 90% of his hugs and kisses and I lap them up! He's nearly 2 and now says 'mummy cuddle' and it melts my heart.

I have an 18 month old boy who I was CONVICED was a girl until the 20 week scan he's an utter delight. He's sweet and affectionate and just learning words like 'nee naw' and 'bus' and 'CAT!' He comes up to me and puts his chubby baby arms round my neck for kisses and cuddles. He laughs uproariously at tummy tickles and daddy being silly and dances away to music in that wobbly determined toddler way.

I'd be very happy to have another boy if and when I do!

It's really nice to read about people's wonderful boys. DS is only 7.5 months, so exciting to think about what he might be like as he gets older.

DS is a non-stop bundle of energy. Crawling round the house like a maniac, pulling himself up against the furniture to stand and trying to take steps. Grinning all the time. And when asked if he can say mama, grinning like the Cheshire Cat and yelling dada in my face! Currently trying to climb up my leg, so better pay him some attention!

This is a lovely thread to read.

I have a daughter who is 2.5 and I'm 34 weeks pregnant with DC2. We didn't find out the sex. I've just assumed it's another girl and to be perfectly honest can't really imagine having a boy. I wouldn't go as far as to say I was actively hoping for a girl, I just want a healthy baby, but for me a boy feels like venturing into the unknown.

This thread has made me think, actually, a boy might be really lovely.

Having said that, DD wants a sister...

haze lovejy post so glad you have a lovely dil me too.

I do have dds as well but really value my special relationship with my dils.

My little dude, nearly 8, wants to be a footballer when he gets older. He said he'd buy me some new clothes, make up & a new house when he becomes a professional footballer.

He tells me I'm the best mum in the world. (Usually when I let him have a rocket ice lolly 😉)

In the morning the first thing he does is give me the biggest smile & hug ❤️

I have a beautiful 12 yr old dd too, (a bit grumpy at the moment, but will pass hopefully!) Fircely independent, always has been, whereas ds, is quite happy being with me whenever.