I dunno.
What Fox said was:
I was called up last week because there were a few articles in the press asking whether 3 was too young for a child to know who they are and say that they're trans, and I had to chat with a talk show host ... and the talk show host seemed actually very transphobic and she said straight out that she had children and she said that one of her boys had a phase where they were dressing in pink or tutus or something and they were 5 and she said 'well they just grow out of it, I just thought he might be gay but they grow out of it.' It reminds me of what one of the mums was saying here actually about gender and sexuality and that she feels, for the trans youth at least, that it doesn't help to have trans - the T - latched onto LGB, because when it comes to kids, I do believe, well obviously, for anyone, we're talking about gender, we're not talking about sexuality, and that kind of muddies the waters a little bit because people start to think that it's a deviant kind of thing.
A charitable interpretation would be that Fox was just saying we shouldn't talk about children and sexuality in the same sentence and that to do so has deviant connotations.
However, we know that the vast majority of gender dysphoric children, if not pushed down the trans route, do grow up to simply be gay or lesbian. The talk show host's thought process was not at all unreasonable and she was not being 'deviant' for wondering whether her son might grow up to be gay. I do think the transagenda is hugely homophobic in this regard. Transactivists are never willing to discuss the 80% of gender dysphoric children who might be spared harmful drugs, surgeries and infertility if we were more accepting that they might grow up to be feminine gay men or butch lesbians. Within that context, I'm feeling a lot less charitable than some of you about Fox's use of the word 'deviant'.
FWIW I think the waters are muddy as fuck between gender and sexuality in the trans agenda. We've got conversion therapy of children who would otherwise grow up to be gay, and young lesbian women who are pressured to transition, and we've got middle aged AGP men setting the agenda. I think it's more than a bit dishonest for transactivists to be constantly telling us there's no connection between trans and sexuality when there are all sorts of harmful connections between the two - especially as it was the T which sought to attach to the LGB and is now turning the whole movement into something homophobic, and especially lesbophobic.