Whats your point? I am better than Ian Brady which was my point to the posts that have the smug air of being a better person because they dont wish ill on someone "thats what makes us better" type thing. Laguna, you are clearly are referring to my post. I can assure you that I am in no way smug. Nor do I think that I'm a better person than anyone here (except of course, vile murdering scum, but I'd hope that any of us here could say with absolute certainty that we are much, much better than that).
And it's certainly not about not wishing ill on dispicable human beings. When I think of the likes of Ian Brady, there's no amount of ill I'd wish on them. I had a dear friend who was raped and murdered. When I saw her murderers face printed in the media, it was very easy for me to picture myself in a room with him, taking a hammer to each of his joints. To wish for him the same level of suffering that he inflicted on my wonderful friend. Given the opportunity, I have no doubt that I'd have done it. But to paraphrase Toby Ziggler on the West Wing, that's why we don't let the families or friends of murder victims decide the punishment of the accused.
The person who stole my friend's life was a fucking monster. As was Ian Brady. But we don't conquer monsters by becoming monsters ourselves. And I'm of that belief that by torturing, or taking the life of, another human, that is what we'd become.
Now you'll probably think that that is a smug statement too. It took me quite some time to get to there. Initially, not only did I want punishment, I wanted vengence. I wanted to see my friend's murderer hung, drawn and fucking quartered. But over time I thought of my friend, and who she was, her beliefs, and how she felt about such things. She would have hated the thought of anyone, even the vile prick who ended her life at the age of 29, being tortured or killed in her name. So that's how I've arrived at my stance on this topic.