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Why should I be able to park outside my own house?

219 replies

cooplise · 30/04/2017 11:31

We have three cars at home and while we do have a driveway, this is only large enough for one car. We need to use these cars every day to get to and from work and we're all time pressured so we can't have long walks to get to the car in the morning. Parking in our road is very difficult especially as we are close to the train station so commuters use the road for free parking. A few months ago we started putting out traffic cones on the road outside our house, just enough to reserve space for our two cars - before we started doing this these spaces were always being filled and we often had to park a 5 - 10 minute walk away which is not really acceptable, we have important jobs and this is time we can do without wasting.

We have had a couple of arguments with people over the last couple of weeks and some people have been trying to move the cones and we have had notes put through the door and left on the car. We think we have every right - we own the house, live on the road, and therefore we should be able to park outside our own property. A friend suggested reporting it to the local council and they could reserve the space outside just for us and give us a permit, so I am going to call them next week. Has anyone else had any experience with this? I thought it would be perfectly fine, but the recent problems have made me think that maybe we need to get this extra protection.

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Emmageddon · 30/04/2017 14:28

My NDN used to use cones to bagsy his parking space outside his house. People just moved them. Grumpy entitled git.

PossumInAPearTree · 30/04/2017 14:32

Take the traffic cones and hide them in your back garden. They will soon run out of cones......which they've probably stolen off the council/police anyway. Anyone having their own personal supply of stolen cones round here get in trouble for theft!

Unicorn81 · 30/04/2017 14:33

You are ridiculous, no right whatsoever. I too would chuck the cones in your garden and park there.

PossumInAPearTree · 30/04/2017 14:35

Someone on the exec board at work used to reserve himself and his mates parking spaces with those red/white plastic road work fences even though he was told he wasn't allowed to.....we all pay for our permits the same and nobody gets a reserved space.

I got to work once and only reserved spaces left. I reversed over one i to a space. Some important man came running out shouting at me. I ignored him completely. Engine off and into work leaving a flattened fence thing under my car.

PortiaCastis · 30/04/2017 14:55

Notice for you OP

Why should I be able to park outside my own house?
SnickersWasAHorse · 30/04/2017 15:01

Now a reverse thread is dull and annoying but fun can be had spotting the people who don't read the full thread and chime in telling the op what a bellend they are.

GladAllOver · 30/04/2017 15:02

I had the same problem OP, with common people parking their dirty second-hand cars outside my estate house while they went off to their menial little jobs.
I got my PA to speak to the mayor, and he's had reserved bays painted in the road for my servants to park, and a warden stationed there to keep out the riff-raff.
Don't you have the initiative to do the same?

AwaywiththePixies27 · 30/04/2017 15:09

Would it be wrong for me to let down their tyres or is there anything else I can do?

Unfortunately yes in kegsl terms but totally understandable in real life terms.
OP, keep nagging ar your council, you need to get other neighbours onside too as even when my taxi home had to park stop dead in the middle of the road to let us out because there was zero room on either side, the council told us that I was the first to complain and they can't really do anything Hmm

She didn't have an answer for me when I asked, if a taxi cant park safely with all the cars parked up, how on earth would a fire engine get through in an emergency. It stresed me too Op as I often have to have paramedics out for myself for 02, (asthmatic) and it's already caused arguments with some arses who also think they own the road houses. I actually do worry about getting ill enough to need an ambulance now in case it happens again. Sad

When you say you've been ringing the council is it the highways agency you've been ringing? Just wondering if a little visit from our friendly traffic wardens might help. I'm just clutching at straws now though because I dont drive.

Oh and I'd be tempted to complain to their landlord too.

Yellowcups · 30/04/2017 15:13

Holy fucking Moses! A joke yes? Rent a garage and stop being so entitled. Important job 😂😂😂😂

AwaywiththePixies27 · 30/04/2017 15:14

*legal terms not kegal. Blush

AwaywiththePixies27 · 30/04/2017 15:18

OP dont hide the cones in your garden.

Go out first thing in the morning, when they're all busy with their important jobs Grin put them in your boot and drive them MILES away. I mean yeah it'll be worth a bit in petrol but the look on their face will be priceless. 😂

Lesdiscrets · 30/04/2017 22:16

Move the cones half way down half way down the road

Piratefairy78 · 30/04/2017 22:48

You sound like our neighbour. He's started parking on the pavement even though he has one car and space to park 3/4. He just doesn't like anyone parking outside his house.

He didn't like it though when 6-7 police cars came to us one day in quick succession. We were in the garden and each one commented on his parking!! ( disclaimer - we have family in the police force. A major incident happened very close by and family member offered our house for toilet/tea breaks).

Redglitter · 30/04/2017 22:54

This has to be a reverse. No-one could be this arrogant or stupid.

C0untDucku1a · 30/04/2017 22:57

Redglitter what about the thread makes you think it could be a Reverse? Grin

drivingmisspotty · 30/04/2017 23:16

They sound very annoying, frustrating anf wrong.

But if this is keeping you awake at night I think maybe you should have a look at why you are just so angry. You really don't need to engage with them at all. If you need the space move the cones. If they give you grief ignore. If they threaten you or property then report. I know that it must loom over you a but when you come up the road whether there will be parking and whether there will be a confrontation. But it sounds like you need some distance from the situation. You can't really change how they think/behave just your reaction to it.

Redglitter · 30/04/2017 23:26

C0untDucku1a

I'm psychopathic I know these things Grin

PavlovianLunge · 30/04/2017 23:29

I can't get too worked up about reverse threads, but I'm fuming at the lack of a diagram.

Tapandgo · 30/04/2017 23:31

Remove the cones completely - and keep doing it til cones are no more

Ceto · 30/04/2017 23:40

I'm psychopathic I know these things

Or could it be that OP admitted it several hours ago?

Tapandgo · 30/04/2017 23:41

Get your mates involved

Why should I be able to park outside my own house?
Badcat666 · 30/04/2017 23:48

OP, stop being an entitled dick. You cannot reserve the space outside your house unless it is being used for a skip and then you may need the ok from the council.

We had a neighbour who kept putting cones out until a visit from the local police knocked on his door one day who politely told him he was obstructing the highway.

Also road parking permits only give you the right to park on a certain road, not in front of your own house. So you could still have issues with people living in your road parking outside your house.

How can someone with such an important job be such a brainless tool?

HoneyDragon · 30/04/2017 23:49

In the dead of night get a gang together and move the car and the cones 500yds down the road.

Ceto · 30/04/2017 23:51

Badcat, it's probably a good idea to RTFT, or at least the OP's posts, before accusing people of being brainless tools.

Giraffey1 · 30/04/2017 23:55

You have no legal right to park outside you house. It is the public highway. I know that may be annoying for you but that's how it is.

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