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Why should I be able to park outside my own house?

219 replies

cooplise · 30/04/2017 11:31

We have three cars at home and while we do have a driveway, this is only large enough for one car. We need to use these cars every day to get to and from work and we're all time pressured so we can't have long walks to get to the car in the morning. Parking in our road is very difficult especially as we are close to the train station so commuters use the road for free parking. A few months ago we started putting out traffic cones on the road outside our house, just enough to reserve space for our two cars - before we started doing this these spaces were always being filled and we often had to park a 5 - 10 minute walk away which is not really acceptable, we have important jobs and this is time we can do without wasting.

We have had a couple of arguments with people over the last couple of weeks and some people have been trying to move the cones and we have had notes put through the door and left on the car. We think we have every right - we own the house, live on the road, and therefore we should be able to park outside our own property. A friend suggested reporting it to the local council and they could reserve the space outside just for us and give us a permit, so I am going to call them next week. Has anyone else had any experience with this? I thought it would be perfectly fine, but the recent problems have made me think that maybe we need to get this extra protection.

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Bluntness100 · 30/04/2017 13:00

What is the point of s reverse, just say this is how my neighbour behaves, it's upsetting me what do you think. Why play pretend.Confused

PerfectPeachy · 30/04/2017 13:02

Reverse threads are boring

OP, just keep moving the cones and parking in 'their' spots. I'd put in dash cam cameras first though. If you can't afford real ones then at least put fake ones it.

TipTop333 · 30/04/2017 13:07

Still no fucking diagram

ivykaty44 · 30/04/2017 13:10

Move the cones a very long way away Wink obviously don't steel the cones, but help them find their place in life and possibly they need a holiday or therapy

ADishBestEatenCold · 30/04/2017 13:18

"What is the point of s reverse, just say this is how my neighbour behaves, it's upsetting me what do you think."

This

TipTop333 · 30/04/2017 13:20

The council won't do anything for one plonker putting cones out.

However, they might intervene if the road gets overrun with traffic cones.

Buy 2, encourage neighbours to do the same, job done.

LordAnthony · 30/04/2017 13:23

Thing is op if you'd just typed, my neighbour parks like a tool, you'd have got near unanimous agreement, there was no need for a reverse (not that there ever is).

Like almost every reverse thread on here it was utterly transparent.

QuackDuckQuack · 30/04/2017 13:26

OP - I think you owe us the detail of what your unreasonable neighbours think 'very important jobs' are.

user1493022461 · 30/04/2017 13:32

He doesn't even own the house, he's a council tenant. It's fucking irritating

What the fuck has that got to do with anything?

sleepwinder · 30/04/2017 13:32

I would report them to the police for blocking the highway with their cones and aggressive behaviour.

CoffeeBreakIn5 · 30/04/2017 13:33

I'd park in their 'reserved' space and leave the neighbours a thank you note 😊

Andrewofgg · 30/04/2017 13:35

CoffeeBreakIn5 Genius at work Grin

LordAnthony · 30/04/2017 13:37

Or you could just write 'reserved for the lama fetishists' society AGM' on the comes in marker pen.

TheMythOfFingerprints · 30/04/2017 13:38

radiator Grin

ICanTuckMyBoobsInMyPockets · 30/04/2017 13:39

If I saw someone using cones to reserve their spot, I'd go out of my way to move them and park there every single day, even if there were other spaces available.

But I'm an argumentative dick Grin

pardreg · 30/04/2017 13:56

Why patronise us like this OP?

FrenchLavender · 30/04/2017 13:57

So would I Ican. I usually avoid arguments and confrontations wherever possible but they are behaving outrageously and I just couldn't let them get away with it.

I know it sucks if parking is in short supply and someone constantly gets nearer to your house than you can, but it's just tough witty - someone's probably outside their house, otherwise I am sure they'd rather be there. It's also annoying when a household has two or more cars and you only have one, but again, adult children live at home for a lot longer these days (not necessarily through choice) and lots of people are forced to house share and they pay their road tax just like you do.

Suck it up or move to the middle of a field.

Goingtobeawesome · 30/04/2017 14:04

Don't be so silly. Of course you can't let down their tyres. They'll move their cars immediately if you did that Hmm.

BackforGood · 30/04/2017 14:08

LouiseLouie - it's when someone posts about an issue, pretending to be the 'other side' of the argument. I think it's supposed to elicit less subjective answers, which you sometimes get, where everyone just agrees with the OP usually when it is a man they are moaning about, even though the OP is clearly being unreasonable.

wowfudge · 30/04/2017 14:09

Put the cones in their bins. Keep doing it. Every single time. If the council won't do anything, what about the neighbourhood policing team? They work to put a stop to antisocial behaviour. Your neighbours are loons and clearly antisocial so it's got to be worth a try.

thethoughtfox · 30/04/2017 14:10

Take the cones away completely and take them into the council offices then they can't use them again.

ivykaty44 · 30/04/2017 14:11

See Id park between the cones and then, well I don't use the car often - perhaps I could go a full calendar month without driving...😂

bloodymaria · 30/04/2017 14:13

I haven't seen a reverse in bloody ages! They are still fucking stupid.

ivykaty44 · 30/04/2017 14:14

Why would the council do anything about it? If residents want parking permits for thier cars they can contact the district council and arrange it - but be warned it's expensive each year

BuzzKillington · 30/04/2017 14:19

I would simply pull up, move the cones and park. I often do this.