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Was I unreasonable to dob someone in?

391 replies

VulvicMineralWater · 27/04/2017 11:38

NC as this might be quite outing.

I commute to work on the train. I get on at stop A and off at stop D, both of which have ticket barriers. I always buy a ticket when I travel.

Stops B and C don't have ticket barriers.

A man got on at Stop B. The inspector came around asking for anyone who got on at Stop B. The inspector was very visible and called out "Stop B passengers" loudly enough for everyone to hear. The man didn't have headphones in. Yet, the man didn't show his ticket.

So, as the inspector passed I pointed out the man and said he'd got on at Stop B. Inspector then went to check his ticket and what a surprise the man didn't have one.

The man called me an interfering bitch. Meh, yeah, that's pretty accurate but it fucks me off that people feel as though buying a ticket is optional. It's not. You're using a service, you need to pay for it.

So was I unreasonable to dob this guy in?

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PeaFaceMcgee · 27/04/2017 11:39

Yanbu. Cheeky freeloader.

Justmadeperfectflapjacks · 27/04/2017 11:40

Ywnbu. . People like him bump up ticket prices.

Maybe travel in disguise tomo tho!!

MovingOnUpMovingOnOut · 27/04/2017 11:40

I think you were unreasonable.

On public transport you should really pretend other people don't exist unless there's a threat to life.

Were you a tattle-tale at school as well op? Wink

JustAKitten · 27/04/2017 11:42

You were the kid who asked if the teacher wanted you to hand in the homework 5 minutes before the bell weren't you?

PutThatPomBearBack · 27/04/2017 11:43

Just Grin

ItchyFoot · 27/04/2017 11:43

Riding the train for free is the kind of stupid thing I did as a teenager. Adults should know better. I'd be to anxious to dob someone in but if I were you I'd be feeling very satisfied smug

VulvicMineralWater · 27/04/2017 11:44

I actually wasn't. At school I was real little shit. I was expelled just before my GCSEs for setting off the fire alarms multiple times.

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MadamePomfrey · 27/04/2017 11:44

I think the inspector was pretty unreasonable expecting people to be honest about where they got on Hmm obviously those not buying tickets aren't going to say anything. That seems a crazy system!

SumThucker · 27/04/2017 11:44

I wouldn't have 'grassed' on someone for it right in front of them or 'behind their back', if someone wants to be foolish and run the risk, more fool them.

WorraLiberty · 27/04/2017 11:45

Oh ffs I couldn't be bothered dobbing anyone in for that.

Perhaps he's down on his luck and needed to get to the Jobcentre or visit someone in hospital.

I'd feel like shit tbh.

JustAKitten · 27/04/2017 11:46

So you've suddenly had an epiphany and decided to overcompensate, by being so annoyingly law abiding you'd dob someone in when it doesn't affect or concern you and is a minor crime.

I'd rather deal with the rebellious teen

VulvicMineralWater · 27/04/2017 11:46

Madam They do it every day on my train. It's ridiculous. Tickets should be out at all times so they're not relying on people being honest.

Sum But as someone up thread said, it increases the cost for everyone else.

Worra Tough tits. You're using a service, you need to pay for it.

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SumThucker · 27/04/2017 11:47

How did you carry on sitting there? I'd have thought you were a right knob to be honest if I'd witnessed it Grin

faithinthesound · 27/04/2017 11:48

If people don't want to be dobbed on, then they shouldn't do dob-worthy things.

BastardGoDarkly · 27/04/2017 11:48

Me too Worra

Dick move.

JustAKitten · 27/04/2017 11:48

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VulvicMineralWater · 27/04/2017 11:49

SumThucker I give zero fucks what other people think of me. If you were paying £38 per day to get to and from work whilst other people were paying diddly, maybe you wouldn't think I was a knob.

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JustAKitten · 27/04/2017 11:49

Then why did you ask?

DorisMcSweeney · 27/04/2017 11:49

Good on you. Trust you told him to bugger off when he called you a bitch

VulvicMineralWater · 27/04/2017 11:50

JustAKitten I don't understand how I'm a "Nasty fucker" for saying people need to pay for services they use Confused

I also love the irony of your post Grin

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Gemma1995 · 27/04/2017 11:50

I think you did the right thing why should the majority pay and a minority freeload! Non payment means price hikes, good on you!

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 27/04/2017 11:50

YWBU. What did you gain by running telling tales. Have you got nothing better to do. Did it have any impact on your life.

VulvicMineralWater · 27/04/2017 11:51

Dorris I just laughed at him.

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nelipotter · 27/04/2017 11:51

Harsh, JustAKitten.... but fair, imo

JustAKitten · 27/04/2017 11:51

Vulvic because you said you don't about people's circumstances and are an interfering busybody.

The man not paying does not affect you

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