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To think that some left-wing supporters are just so NASTY

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cathf · 22/04/2017 14:22

This is based on posts I have read on here and a couple of very vocal left-wing friends I have on facebook.
I have truly never read a Conservative supporter personally attacking Labour in the same way.
I find it astonishing and if I am honest, a bit childish.
Recent examples include a website pulling Teresa May's living room apart and costing out every single thing in it, to a chorus of comments along the lines of how can she sleep at night when children are hungry and she has a £25 candle.
Every time the subject is raised on here, there is a long thread of hysterical comments about how nasty the Tories are. Yes, Tory supporters state their case and answer back, but they seem to be able to do it in a more restrained, mature manner than outraged Labour screamers.
There seems to be a lot of personal bile aimed at Teresa May, which I am at a loss to understand - just what has she done that is so terrible?
She is pushing through Brexit, but that was what the country voted for. Is she supposed to go against the country's wishes?
All of Labour's policies look very lovely, but none have any substance at all. My friend recently stated on Facebook she was supporting Jeremy Corbyn because he wanted peace not war. And? How is he going to implement that then? It reminds me of the 1980s T-shirts stating War is Stupid. Lots of nice words, but to implementation strategies.
It amazes me that supposedly intelligent people seem to be so brainwashed by this nonsense and think that flinging mud is an appopriate way to behave.
Is it just me?

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user1471596238 · 25/04/2017 18:30

To be fair, Corbyn has endured a fair amount of personal criticism so it's not all about verbal attacks on May by left wingers. Personally, I think that personal attacks are pointless and serve no purpose. I'm not a massive fan of Corbyn so I guess that I will vote Labour in spite of him because I am not comfortable with where it feels like we are potentially headed under a Tory government but everyone has to make their own choice and I'm not going to start lambasting people because they don't agree with me.

cathf · 25/04/2017 18:36

Reading a lot of the replies on here, it seems a lot of the pps have fallen into the usual trap of assuming that all Tories are wealthy and privileged.
I am neither of these things, nor I suppose were most of the people who voted Conservative at the last election.
Maybe Conservative voters just want calm and stability, and think that the Conservatives - although not perfect by any means - are the best bet for achieving these things.
I live in a very Labour part of the country my area is so red that non-one checks your politics before ranting about the Conservatives. They just assume your views are the same as theirs.
Yet one of the most vocal anti-Tory, anti-Thatcher person I know has actually done very well out of the Conservative overall, although he would never admit it.
In my area, people lament the closing of shipyards, pits and steel works, but one has to ask - would we REALLY want to go back to a time when men risked their lives in such heavy, dangerous jobs? I don't think so, but it's all part of the mindless Labour whingeing here.
As far as I can see, most people I know - despite endless virtue signalling - live very comfortable lives and don't seem to do an awful lot for 'the disadvantaged' in real terms.
Although we throw our hands up in horror at the scaling back of Tax Credits, we forgot they are a relatively new phenomena, and life did manage to go on before they were introduced.
I'm sorry, but true poverty does not exist in the UK - poverty of aspirations does, and no amount of money can do anything about that. Most Governments have tried and failed.

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papayasareyum · 25/04/2017 18:40

the loudest and most mean spirited and spiteful on my Facebook feed are SNP supporters followed by Labour..the greens are nice and the Tories (probably a good half of my friends list) never mention politics.

HomityBabbityPie · 25/04/2017 18:42

I haven't RTFT but most of the bile I've seen on MN has been directed at Jeremy Corbyn. I still don't really understand why.

ILikeBeansWithKetchup · 25/04/2017 18:42

I think you yourself also seem to assume all those who are not wealthy and are underprivileged / disadvantaged vote labour, since you said your working class area is red!

By default, I assume you are suggesting that everyone with wealth and privilege votes Conservative, just because they have done well out of them (and actually that they should because of that simple fact). Also not true. Plenty of wealthy people vote Labour

other parties are available

And to say true poverty does not exist in the UK is pretty insulting. My mother worked with people who fed their children cat food.

HomityBabbityPie · 25/04/2017 18:44

true poverty doesn't exist in the uk

Read the report below.

england.shelter.org.uk/__data/assets/pdf_file/0012/1200360/Shelter_Homelessness_Report_2015.pdf

ILikeBeansWithKetchup · 25/04/2017 18:47

cath, your views are very coloured by where you live! I am surrounded by wealth and privilege and I assure you that some conservative voters are loudmouths too . Just yesterday my friend got a Facebook post howled down by a right winger. She had not put anything that deserved his sneering treatment of her (he actually called her names) or his right wing pontificating. She's now blocked him.

But you do use very loaded language, such as ranting. Perhaps they're debating, or perhaps they are frustrated. It's a natural part of being in opposition.

cathf · 25/04/2017 18:48

That stretches logic to the extreme end ILikeBeans. I acutally said most people in my area live very comfortable lives, so not sure how that makes them poor or disadvantaged?
I am sure you will not be the only person to relale us with stories of 'poverty', but I am sorry, if anyone living in the UK with children today has to genuinely feed them on cat food, there is something seriously wrong with their budgeting.

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ILikeBeansWithKetchup · 25/04/2017 18:49

Oh my good Lord.

HomityBabbityPie · 25/04/2017 18:49

Lol, op you are just reinforcing the Tory voter stereotype here.

ILikeBeansWithKetchup · 25/04/2017 18:54

Your mind is set.

You see anyone who votes labour (or says they do anyway) as a'mindless whinger', you don't think 'poverty' exists and you have cancelled out any positive posting on this thread by anyone who doesn't hold your views.

There are lots of people - left, right and centre on this thread who have not been 'nasty'

To say families living in the direst of poverty can't budget is downright offensive. those people are living in areas bearing the brunt of the end of industrialised heavy industry. I don't know exactly where you are (it appear to have had pits, steelworks and shipyards!) but in many of those areas there is still high unemployment, especially male unemployment, and low life expectancy I expect it's their faults though

ILikeBeansWithKetchup · 25/04/2017 18:58

And, anyway, you missed my point. I was agreeing that wealth does not signify which way you might vote.

There are Labour voting millionaires: and Conservative voting people on low incomes.

I do not assume that your socio- economic background determines exclusively how you vote. But you did. The people around you are 'comfortable' (according to you everyone is!) but they would no doubt identify themselves as working class. You said they all vote Labour. Not me.

GhostofFrankGrimes · 25/04/2017 19:00

Momentum will destroy the Labour party from within and will simply blame everyone else.

you mean abit like leave voters blaming remainers for 'talking down the economy?'

ILikeBeansWithKetchup · 25/04/2017 19:14

thanks Homity. I am very passionate about poverty and its complex causes (and I could cry right now with despair) and have read that before when I was preparing some resources on child poverty with DS1. No doubt Shelter will be perceived as biased.

Here are some statistics.

www.independent.co.uk/news/business/news/uk-poverty-the-charts-that-show-the-true-state-of-low-income-britain-a7031666.html

Please please read OP. there are some good things for Conservatives to see here. persistent poverty fell under Cameron, for example. but there are a shameful number of families living below the poverty line.

I expect you wouldn't agree with the internationally agreed definition of poverty.

HomityBabbityPie · 25/04/2017 19:16

I don't know how anyone could read that shelter report and still say there is no poverty. It broke my heart.

And even if, op, you were correct and it was their own fault for failing to budget properly - what about the children living in those conditions? Is it their fault too?

jarhead123 · 25/04/2017 19:18

I agree. Labour supporters really lay into the torries - says a lot about the people who vote for them I think!

GhostofFrankGrimes · 25/04/2017 19:21

I don't know how anyone could read that shelter report and still say there is no poverty. It broke my heart.

yes, but its right wing race to the bottom poverty e.g its only poverty if you live on the streets of calcutta.

TheMonkeyandthePlywoodViolin · 25/04/2017 19:21

I wonder why they lay into people who say theres no such thing as poverty.Hmm

GhostofFrankGrimes · 25/04/2017 19:22

I agree. Labour supporters really lay into the torries - says a lot about the people who vote for them I think!

Ever read the Daily Mail?

user1489261248 · 25/04/2017 19:23

I agree with a lot of what cathf said a few posts back, but I am not sure you can say poverty doesn't exist in the UK. I believe it does Cath, (a bit,) but the ones who CLAIM to be poor are usually not.

Agree about tax credits though. People coped before them perfectly well, and they were only introduced just over a decade ago, so people needn't start going on about how wages were waaaaay higher before, them and that is why people coped.. Yeah wages did used to be way higher, but pre 1980's, not the early 2000's.

And I absolutely agree that tax credits had to be capped at 2 children, and a benefit cap was essential. The tories are only undoing the ridiculous damage done by labour in the first place with giving tons and tons of benefits with the more children you have!

Whenever it was done, it was going to sting. But it needed doing. If I had a fiver for every single mother I have ever seen in my area (with 4 to 7 kids,) who have had £500 iphones, 3 or 4 holidays abroad per year, sky tv, a new car, a 50" tv etc etc, I would be a millionaire! And they smoked and went to the pub every week, and also got council tax paid, rent paid, free school meals and free school trips for their kids etc etc. In addition to their 'rent-free' council house having everything done to it when it was needed.

I remember a few years back, one woman with 4 kids (with 20 years between them!) who had never worked a day in her life, being allocated a 4 bed council house, as her 3 bed was 'too small' and she moaned and whinged and bitched because it wasn't ready for her to move into for Christmas.

The house had had its occupants for 30 years, and was having a new kitchen, a new heating system, a new bathroom, new windows, new doors, and she had a £500 grant for carpets and decoration. And she was MOANING. Ungrateful entitled-to cow. It's people like her that make me glad the benefit cap, and 'tax credits stop at 2 kids' rule has come in.

The great thing is, this woman's kids are all at secondary school now, (or have left home,) and she has been forced out to work in her mid 40's after almost 30 years of claiming benefits. About time too.

As someone who has worked for over 30 years, and has always paid my dues; when I see people living off the state and flat out taking the piss out of it, and churning out tons of kids, and never working a day in their lives, it makes me pissed off to the nth degree!

As for the remoaners, they go on about how the country did NOT vote for brexit as it was only 52% who voted for it, yet if it had been the other way round they would have said the country voted to remain LOL.

ILikeBeansWithKetchup · 25/04/2017 19:24

And Conservative supporters also really lay into socialists jarhead and the poor who don't exist says a lot about them ,too.

ilovechoc1987 · 25/04/2017 19:24

Ghost no they don't! It was the left that let a population the size of flipping Newcastle into this country every year that put pressure on every single services available.

BigGrannyPants · 25/04/2017 19:24

Our family would starve without tax credits. Now that they have been cut, we will go without hearing.

ILikeBeansWithKetchup · 25/04/2017 19:25

In fact the new insult seems to be 'liberal'*. Goodness, what a dreadful thing to be !

*disclaimer : more so in the USA and the Daily Mail.

GhostofFrankGrimes · 25/04/2017 19:26

As for the remoaners, they go on about how the country did NOT vote for brexit as it was only 52% who voted for it, yet if it had been the other way round they would have said the country voted to remain LOL.

Nigel Farage wants second referendum if Remain campaign scrapes narrow win

www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/nigel-farage-wants-second-referendum-7985017