Do you really think your experience of giving birth and Kate's experience were in any way comparable though, Want2?
Kate will have had the very best medical care and attention: no worries there about flagging down a busy midwife, about trying to get some sleep in a ward afterwards with other people's babies crying all night, about getting a GP appointment when one of the children were ill. That's something going above and beyond money - even wealthy 'ordinary' people can't control this.
Re "wasting time loathing" - it misses the point. The role is being objected to, not the individuals who are born or married into that role. William and Harry - and George and Charlotte (and Kate) will have, have always had, the full power of the state to ensure that they are safe, happy and well, with the best of everything. For everybody else, has everyone has been vicariously complaining about since the announcement of the GE in June, it's cuts, cuts and more cuts.
No one is suggesting regicide or sticking the heads of William and Kate on spikes outside the Houses of Parliament. But it's living in a delusional bubble for them to somehow claim any common ground with the hoi polloi. The world is filled with thirtysomething women and men who lost their mother in their teens. Yes, it's very sad, but they do still have their father and grandmother alive FFS! They were hardly cast out to struggle through adolescence unsupported and alone and unwanted.
The idea that we are in some way interlinked with them, have things in common with them - they suffer from mental illness! They had a baby! They ... uh, George watches Peppa Pig - is nonsense. And in this instance it's patronising nonsense.