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To think basic literacy skills on this board are AWFUL

233 replies

Pinkandwhiteblossoms · 19/04/2017 16:13

I know it's bad form to point it out in the midst of someone else's distress, but seriously, am I the only one who has noticed it?

"your defiantly wrong"
"have you considered councilling"
"their going to take over"
"alot of people don't bother"

I'm not expecting Samuel Pepys but seriously, I find it difficult to respond as the wider point is lost amidst the terrible writing!

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Alisvolatpropiis · 19/04/2017 19:33

It doesn't really bother me, on a personal level. Rarely, very rarely I see a post so poorly written that it puts me off responding. That is usually when it's just a block of text, no paragraphs.

At a population level I do think that basic literacy skills are being eroded, probably from over reliance on autocorrect etc. However that isn't user5000000000's fault and the post about her abusive relationship, by means of example, is not the place to bring it up.

Pestilentialone · 19/04/2017 19:36

Ironic Iona Grin

Aeroflotgirl · 19/04/2017 19:37

You say that thebaker My daughter who is 10 and has ASD, learning difficulties and developmental delays and is below average academically, memorises the globe, and can tell you what flag looks like for each country, she is really good. She can see patterns in things which most people cannot. She is also talented at trampolining, gaining her grade 1 and 2 after only 2 lessons, and working on grade 3. So there you go.

JacquesHammer · 19/04/2017 19:37

The new trend for saying/typing should of instead of should have is annoying me the most along with somethink

Typing "should of" is fairly glaring but around here if you hear "should of" it is more likely to be the contraction "should've"

DeanaPiana · 19/04/2017 19:43

thebakerwithboobs I haven't mentioned spelling once in this post? Confused

DeanaPiana · 19/04/2017 19:43

Not in this entire thread have I mentioned anything like that

thebakerwithboobs · 19/04/2017 19:45

Aeroflot that's great, and is exactly my point-which perhaps I didn't make clear. Your daughter struggles academically but has a whole fist of other amazing talents that others don't have. The OP is judging others based purely on one, single academic skill which simply writes off all of the other talents that person may have. Being academically able is great, but not all talents are academic ones and it's ridiculous to judge others based purely on how well they can write.

thebakerwithboobs · 19/04/2017 19:46

The examples given in the original post are spelling errors, no??

frieda909 · 19/04/2017 19:52

Does anyone else feel a sense of smug satisfaction when they witness an exchange like this on e.g. Facebook?

Jill: Would anyone like to come to the cinema tonight with Jack and me?

Jane: Jack and I.

Jill: What?

Jane: It should be Jack and I, not Jack and me.

Jill: Oh thanks hun, I'll fix it!

Jane: No problem, sorry hun but you know me, I'm such a grammar Nazi!

Hmm
KayTee87 · 19/04/2017 19:55

If that's an exchange you've actually seen then Jane is wrong 😂

gandalf456 · 19/04/2017 19:59

You are probably being slightly U but I'm with you. It really grates when I read really basic errors but I blame the education system from back then. My children are bringing home grammar and spelling sheets that our generation and the ones slightly after didn't have.

frieda909 · 19/04/2017 20:00

Quite. And yes it is indeed an exchange I've seen, more than once in fact!

kingfisherblue33 · 19/04/2017 20:04

Please DON'T pop over to Pedants' Corner if you want to whinge about literacy. That's not what we do over there ... The regulars just like to talk about nuances of language, and how there are very few hard and fast rules.

Vintage and Hobnob - Sorry - my post was meant to be ironic. I love Pedants' Corner. (It's all about context. There are very few correct answers, etc.)

Aeroflotgirl · 19/04/2017 20:14

I know the baker, her spelling is bad, her maths is not up to much, but she's not a write off, and the thought of someone judging her writing and spelling, like op, makes me sad. Thank God for autocorrect, it's easier now for people with SN to spell and write, than before. Thank goodness for calculators as my daughter will have to rely on one due to difficulties with mental arithmetic

Screwinthetuna · 19/04/2017 20:16

It's an Internet forum. People write on their iPhones while pooing or when they are waiting in the car to collect the kids or when they can't sleep. I also do not proof read as honestly, who cares?

boolifooli · 19/04/2017 20:29

Is there any evidence that national literacy levels are on the decline? Or is it the case that we communicate so frequently with the written word nowadays that we are more frequently exposed to people's ability?

Givemeallthegin · 19/04/2017 20:39

OP - I saw this and I thought of you.....

To think basic literacy skills on this board are AWFUL
Crapuccino · 19/04/2017 21:02

Alisvolatpropiis: At a population level I do think that basic literacy skills are being eroded

boolifooli: Is there any evidence that national literacy levels are on the decline? Or is it the case that we communicate so frequently with the written word nowadays that we are more frequently exposed to people's ability?

Longitudinal evidence suggests that in the UK, the population is the most literate it has ever been - see this link. The advent of the internet also means that children are likely reading and writing a lot more than they ever have historically. Quite what level of literacy each person achieves is another question, but we've certainly moved on from the monarchs of England signing their name with a cross.

ifcatscouldtalk · 19/04/2017 21:12

Oh do come back op.

Crapuccino · 19/04/2017 21:27

OP is miles away, in a darkened room, rocking, muttering about spelling and literacy standards and how it's all going to the dogs.

ErrolTheDragon · 19/04/2017 21:43

The new trend for saying/typing should of instead of should have

There is nothing new about people saying 'should of' - it was commonplace where I grew up in the 1960s, and distinctly pronounced that way not as the contracted 'should've' (which is obviously how it originated).

ifcatscouldtalk · 19/04/2017 21:44

crapucinno you do make me laugh!
I'm still waiting for op to answer my question about 100 posts ago. Oh wellGrin

Pinkandwhiteblossoms · 19/04/2017 21:55

What was it, sorry? Been a bit tied up tonight, had a birthday :) Cake

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AntagonyAunt · 19/04/2017 22:21

I have a close friend who has poor writing skills. She is the most genuine, dependable and funniest person I know.
If you can't work out what someone is saying due to their poor spelling and/or grammar then you can't be as clever as you seem to like to think.

ifcatscouldtalk · 19/04/2017 22:22

Do you want this to be a forum where only people with a certain level of literacy can join in? Was my question.
Have to admit I haven't had my chance yet of starting a shit storm on mumsnet then leaving for a birthday party. Damn it, I'm sure my time will come. Grin.