To feel like the biggest slag in the world?

[shouldbeashamed]

Before I met DH I put it about a bit to the tune of 50+ sexual partners. When I go into my local town I often see past conquests.

Today I am at a holiday park 60+ miles away and see someone I shagged 10 ish years ago.

AIBU to feel like the biggest slag in the world? FYI I am female.

I truly wouldn't recognise the woman I sat next to every day at work for six months ten years ago, never mind some random who I took home and had my wicked way with once after a night out from the same time period.

You should go to casinos, count the cards, or something like that, with your memory.

50 isn't really unreasonable over, say, 15 years. (or even over 5 years). It's only er 3 and a bit a year. I don't think that's particularly excessive.

And agree, slag is a horrible word. Only used against women.

user why would amy of us care what 'men' think of us?

user - Most men don't actually fancy women like you - go put your judgey pants away.
Top tip for avoiding being judged like user is judging - don't tell them. Every one of the men I have slept with thought he was my second or third. In fact there are probably at least a half a dozen who thought they were the first.

Meh... I'm in triple figures so you are certainly not a slag! Don't worry about it!!

It is no accident that teenage boys frequently use the word "slag" to describe girls with a poor reputation.

HA!!! Yeah, cos teenage boys and their opinions on women are the barometer we should all hold ourselves to?!

Well done user, you're getting my first

Mmmm if I heard my teenage lads call anyone that vile name they would be sorry. Mind you they never would as thry have been brought up not to be knobs.

I've only slept with 2 and I regret one of them but I do wish I'd ignored the stigma and slept with a few more people before DH.

My best one was hearing from a guy who I was soooo in love with back in the day. He said his Mum was moving to where I came from. Pulled in my road after work with DH & DS in the car, realising his van was by the sold house next door but one to ours. I was

I think we both emailed simultaneously to say, looks like we're neighbours. Was a bit weird that when we were coming in from shopping or whatever he would stand in the front bedroom, watching what was going on. I hadn't told DH, but he did ask, why does the new neighbour spend his time looking out the window when we get back. I just said no idea going OMG in my head.

He was my first love, we still talk occasionally.

There was somewhere I went when I was younger, I slept with maybe 4 people from there. They had some kind of quiz competition, I remember thinking I've slept with 4 people on there, one was very well endowed. The best sex ever.

Yeah well, all men are teenage boys at heart. Think about it...

Lobs the above back.

🤔🤥🙄

If you want to have sex with different people when single dont get caught use tinder go outside of your area, people cant judge you if they dont know anything about your sexual history. Not that people should judge at all.

'all men are teenage boys at heart' really, user1489179512, all of them? Nope, sorry, you're wrong. My DP is an actual adult male, nothing teenage about him. He also doesn't ever refer to women as 'slags', or judge women based on their sexual history. I genuinely feel sorry for you if you're surrounded by so many pathetic, unplesant 'men' who act like teenagers (though not all teenage boys act the way you claim, not by a longshot). Must be awful for you.

'It is no accident that teenage boys frequently use the word "slag" to describe girls with a poor reputation'. Not all teenage boys. Some, sure, but definitely not all. The ones who do have clearly never been taught by their parents to respect women.

I'd have found that hilarious. I have some I slept with on my FB. It was a million years ago, we're all married with children now.