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We should stand up for women by bringing down UK Punting...

353 replies

bringdownUKP · 21/03/2017 16:08

Over the course of a couple of threads recently my attention has been brought to the site UK Punting.

Basically where 'punters' go to rate working girl's and (the married ones) laugh about their wives and swap tips on how to avoid detection.

Apparently the poor little lambs can't help themselves.

Take a look for yourselves: www. ukpunting. com

AIBU that those of us who are genuinely pissed off with the misogynistic bullshit half of the users spout on there should set up fake profiles (not using your usual email address) and spam the shit of them?

And this isn't against WGs....you can do what you like with your body. It's the disgusting human beings that are cheating on their wives and partners and being smug thinking it's a bloody game...

OP posts:
RufusTheRenegadeReindeer · 07/05/2017 09:41

Being paid to do something does not make it a job

Guavaf1sh · 07/05/2017 09:50

Slavery was an industry and there were specialist jobs within it. Doesn't make it morally acceptable obviously. Same with prostitution. But it is technically work, and an industry

peripericardium · 07/05/2017 10:51

Calling it work legitimises it.

That's why certain people want to call themselves "sex workers" instead of prostitutes.

We should not let them hide behind euphemisms.

TheGentleMoose · 07/05/2017 11:02

"euphemism"?

It adequately describes their role and is related to the way they identify themselves. Sex work(er) is a term that they coined themselves - it's non judgemental and not derogatory which helps to ensure their safety.

LassWiTheDelicateAir · 07/05/2017 11:10

"Sex worker" is a euphemism as peripericardium says. Pimps and brothel keepers like it too.

peripericardium · 07/05/2017 12:03

How is a prostitute that calls herself a "sex worker" automatically safer than any other prostitute exactly?

Do you think the scumbags who pay for access to their vaginas, throats and arseholes care what title they put on their CV?

Sorry.. their AdultWork profile, because prostitutes don't have CVs, because it isn't work.

crouchenddadder · 07/05/2017 12:47

You guys have some serious problems. Soul searching may be in order.

LassWiTheDelicateAir · 07/05/2017 13:35

Says the poster who today felt it necessary to resurrect a 2 year old thread about massage parlours.

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LittleBooInABox · 21/06/2017 15:25

Sex is sex. I'd have the jump if I found out my other half was seeking sex workers but then we have an active and fulfilling sex life. So...

At the end of the day he's unlikely to knock a WG up, she's unlikely to destroy his primary relationship out of jealousy, so I can see the appeal.

However these men could are still lying to their partners, but they took the vows. The WG is doing her job.

shrug

VestalVirgin · 21/06/2017 15:37

How is a prostitute that calls herself a "sex worker" automatically safer than any other prostitute exactly?

Yes, how? Not at all, that's how.

But it is oh so very easy to blame women for speaking the truth, instead of actually punishing the men who commit the actual crimes.

Men beat up and murder prostitutes. Men beat up and murder men who wear dresses.

But all those pro-pornstitution and pro-genderism people act like every time a woman says "prostitute" or points out that men in dresses are in fact, men, and wearing dresses and high heels does not turn a male into a woman, a prostitute or male trans person drops dead.

That's magical thinking and completely irrational. Made even more irrational by the fact that there isn't even a connection between violent men and women who speak the truth - the latter certainly do their very best to stay away from the former, and the former certainly do not listen to the latter.

Seriously, get a grip.

And, I already wrote it on this thread, but let the punters show their horrid thoughts to the public. Perhaps that'll help some people understand that changing what they call prostitutes won't change the punters' behaviour.
(Let's face it, those men who murder prostituted women have probably never in their lives used the word "prostitute". There's much uglier words.)

Belle1616 · 21/06/2017 16:06

Meh let them have their website.

You should see what the sex workers have to say about them... much worse lol.

user1498607392 · 28/06/2017 01:24

Most similar threads on this forum completely miss the point with regard to sex workers. Prostitution is a service industry like any other where money is exchanged for providers' time and skill. I have used prostituted since my marriage fell apart and found the experience enormously entertaining. There are few thrills which even compare to walking into a brothel and picking a girl to shag. The bad news for all the mums reading this is that WGs are so good at what they do there is almost no contest – take that from a seasoned purveyor of sensual bliss. By doing all the dramatic huffing and puffing you are trying to negate the nature in which males always looked to spread their genetic material far and wide. So, rather than snooping in his laptop, take a chill pill and just accept this is the way it is. He will still provide for and protect the family but asking him to stay monogamous goes against how humans always behaved and is not realistic!

WhatToDoAboutThis2017 · 28/06/2017 01:32

It's blindingly obvious why your marriage fell apart, user1498607392.

BoldKitties · 28/06/2017 02:10

a seasoned purveyor of sensual bliss. Oh, vomit. Disgusting creep alert!

Glad you found the purchasing of women's bodies 'entertaining', user. As for your 'There are few thrills which even compare to walking into a brothel and picking a girl to shag' line. Do you think it makes you somehow 'cool' to treat women like products on a shelf in a supermarket? Pathetic. And you like to 'shag' girls? Not women?

As for your talking about dramatic 'huffing and puffing', you despise women, yes?I

You are quite the odious individual. I can't imagine why your marriage 'fell apart' Hmm. I hope your wife ran away as fast and far as she could.

BigYellowJumper · 28/06/2017 02:12

Some of you really need to learn not to feed the trolls.

Ignore and report.

TequilaSunshine · 28/06/2017 02:18

I'm not even clicking on that. What's it all about in simplistic terms without being taken to a dodgy website?

WhatToDoAboutThis2017 · 28/06/2017 02:21

TequilaSunshine The OP explains exactly what it's all about.

BoldKitties · 28/06/2017 02:23

Thanks for the scolding, BigYellow. Whilst I agree completely (and am annoyed with myself for even entertaining a clearly goady arsehole), it's a bit shit to be told off publically.

BigYellowJumper · 28/06/2017 02:29

bold I wasn't speaking directly to you, but to people on the thread in general.

It was also scarcely a telling off, but I guess tone is hard to read.

BoldKitties · 28/06/2017 02:35

Sorry, BigYellowJumper. I'm tired, grumpy, in pain, and wallowing a bit cos I had a shit day.

Truce?

BigYellowJumper · 28/06/2017 02:37

We were never at war.

The war is against the twatty disgusting men who use women.

Keep on, sister.

BoldKitties · 28/06/2017 02:48

I couldn't agree more, BigYellow. You're dead right.

user1498607392 · 29/06/2017 03:25

The amount of vile in response to my matter-of-fact post is quite telling. I do not have time to cover all angles atm and will onlt focus on men treating sex workers as sexual objects.

This is a load of crock. I remember how once I mentioned something along similar lines and the lady in the room with me took exception. She said "No one dragged us here kicking and screaming, we are here because it's our choice so don't be so f judgemental".

You see, sex work in countries where it's legal is seen as a lucrative and empowering career option some women may want to choose, which is a social advancement in terms of the post-modern feminist agenda. Yes - many sistas appreciate and value the financial freedom and independence sex work offers so take your issue with them not me. It is not my fault that modern feminism is so messed up it no longer represents what most family minded women stand for.

Now, in response to BK, I don't care about being cool or otherwise. Seeing sex workers is good fun and I always make sure the enjoyment is mutual lol. Mention of "girls" in my post simply reflects my personal preference for having sex with younger females but thanks for asking :-)

lampshady · 29/06/2017 03:52

"make sure the enjoyment is mutual lol".

You're right about that, it did make me lol. Bullshit you'll spend 20 minutes making sure the woman orgasms when you're paying by the half hour/hour.

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