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To think this is odd

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User500 · 09/03/2017 21:51

I've posted about this before but these been futher developments. Dd had been sharing a tutor with a very overbearing girl who the time she interrupted said that he took it as a given that if a student needed him while he was with another student that he would talk to them. When something had happened with my dd though he told her I can't just drop everything I've got other stuff to do when he was with this girl. Dd had been arguing with him a lot at that time. When told he wouldn't be able to keep both students he said I won't choose between them despite him having my dd first. He's now taking the other girl out weekly and ignoring my dd. Surely there is something odd going on between the two? The girl has described him as her kidred sprit and boasted to my dd he likes her more. Surely this is a safeguarding issue

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MadMags · 10/03/2017 16:19

I think you need help.

This isn't healthy.

SookiesSocks · 10/03/2017 17:03

Whats to understand?
You raised your concerns and there was no action. End of.

This girl has a SEN and is bullying your DD. Focus on that not on whether the tutor is wrong for not teaching your DD.

Seriously you need to let this go.

Foxysoxy01 · 10/03/2017 17:22

I have read your previous threads and now this one and I have to said you make your posts about as clear as mud!

I really have very little idea what you are talking about and find it very hard to actually follow what you are trying to say.

From what I do understand it really comes across like you have an unhealthy obsession about this tutor. Do you know him personally? Or have you spent sometime with him? Ask yourself honestly do you have feelings for him?

It sounds like your DD (and maybe you) might have got a bit of an obsession with him and he had to stop tutoring her. The other girl may have picked up on it all and is just winding your DD up and trying to get a rise out of her.

It would be healthier all round if you leave the tutor alone and help your DD to get over it and ignore the other girl.

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