Jessicake, Funnily enough I lurk on these threads and the Archers ones and was just wondering if anyone else saw the parallels with Rob Titchener (on a huge, scary, real scale) - you're a mess, darling, but don't worry, you have me now - those friends of yours, you don't need them, they do you no good - look at me, look how great people think I am - it's not safe out there, you should stay at home, I'm here now and I'll make our home so perfect..