To hate having my breasts touched?

[Darlink]

By my husband , that is.
I just hate it.
Is this unusual ?

I hate it too, especially my nipples shudders it gives me some weird feeling in my throat and I want to hit him (DP)

Another person thinking it was just me!! I try to put up with it because DH enjoys it so much, but as soon as he strays in that direction I feel myself tensing up and thinking, "Careful, you - no pinching - no teeth - no twiddling..." As a pp aid, they are not stress balls. Nor are they tuning knobs.

It does nothing for me at all and cringe if anything touches my nipples.

Careful, you - no pinching - no teeth - no twiddling..." As a pp aid, they are not stress balls. Nor are they tuning knobs.

Yy! You'd think they weren't attached to a sentient being, the way they get handled...

Just wish I had a husband who wanted to touch them. Mine doesnt.

I hate my whole boobs being grabbed or squeezed but I love them being stroked, kissed, nipples sucked and squeezed. It is the biggest turn-on.

picklemepopcorn Exactly!

Yanbu

Exactly this
Been thinking.
There is actually a 2 minute window of opportunity during sex when nipple attention done right is acceptable.

Gentle fondling of the bottom/ sides of breasts is ok too but when a finger "accidentally " strays on to the N region I feel like a spitting cat.

I did manage to bf though as it's not the same as not on ends iyswim

So glad to hear I'm not alone

It makes me feel sick then punchy

OMG I am the exemption to the rule!
I bloody loves my nipples being sucked as it brings me to orgasm much quicker.
I breast fed for 7 years and they were totally asexual but now pre-menopausal - YES YES YES

BlahBlah me too! I get this weird feeling in the back of my throat if my nipples are touched, I thought that was just me. I get the thirsty sensation that another pp mentioned as well. I don't mind the bottom/sides being touched but not the nipples. It's not unbearable but it's definitely a really weird sensation.

DP leaves the nipples well alone as he knows I don't like it. We don't have DCs but we do want to and ideally I want to bf but the thought of it makes me squirm a bit.

Breastfeeding didn't bother me at all, or little hands, so don't let that worry you too much. It's completely different somehow.

My poor DP never knows what reaction I'll have to him touching my breasts. Either i will become aroused or bitshit "don't fucking touch me or I'll rip your arms from their sockets". There is no middle ground and it is impossible to tell which one it will be.

Either reaction is quite visceral.

How interesting - this is exactly me. I used to like it perfectly well but since my two children I really actively dislike it unless I am really really in the mood. Then I love it. Otherwise makes me feel invaded and punchy . Wish I could flip a switch and go back to how it was before on that one.

I used to feel like this - never ever let exDH touch my boobs, especially my nipples. I felt violated if he did. Hated it if someone / something even brushed against my nipples. BF my third and that was totally fine. Split with ex (who was sexually coercive so I don't know if that was part of the issue or not, but I think not as I felt like this before). New-ish boyfriend now, and OMG I love it! I go from 0-60 in the feeling turned on department when he does. It's like magic! Bizarrely enough I felt the same about receiving oral sex - HATED it before, now, complete turnaround. And I don't think it's 'skill' related, couldn't even bare the thought of it. I just think new man has magic powers

God I thought this was just me!

Tri are you sure it isn't skill/attitude related? Trust? Knowing it is being done for you, to make you feel good, rather than for him?

I don't hate it but it doesn't do anything for me.

Quite possibly pickle. Although I hated not wearing a bra even as a teen because t-shirt fabric touching my nipples was so abhorrent. Maybe a combo of having a baby suck on them for over a year desensitising a bit, plus trust/attraction thing with newish-man I don't know! Such a turnaround though!