To hate having my breasts touched?

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By my husband , that is.
I just hate it.
Is this unusual ?

he involuntary clenches his sissy in his sleep

I'm fecking dying at this

I used to hate it but the last guy was bloody good at it took me till I'm nearly 42 to find I like it

I am absolutely the same, cannot stand it since bf, it properly goes through me and makes me want to shudder. This thread makes me really happy, I'm always trying to explain it to my Dh!

I can't stand it either. Ebf'd for years happily however. I think my boobs know their true purpose.

It took me a looong time to associate my breasts with sex again, I just saw them as DD's food source and a source of pain, leaks and annoyance when I was bf.

YADNBU - used to be able to tolerate it whilst not enjoying it particularly. Post BF each child for 2 yrs; I cannot stand it. It makes my skin crawl - I genuinely loathe it.

So glad I'm not alone. Nipples are portrayed as the holy grail of arousal.
I just feel sort of invaded if dh tries to touch them

clenches his sissy Best post Ever. Am crying laughing. Fucking brilliant

Blimey - I thought it was just me! Absolutely can't stand it and nothing to do with bf as I've no children...

Lalala yes so hard to explain to dh. I feel like a right spoilsport

Wasn't a fan pre-breastfeeding. Absolutely hate it now. TBH I really dislike the breastfeeding too.

Interesting! I'm the same except I didn't bf as I couldn't stand that either. Now they just feel a bit numb and meh.

I have found my people.

Always felt a right freak that i have never liked my tits being touched or got anything out of it, even Pre dc (and never bf any of them so it's not that). I remember an ex once telling me his new gf would come from having them touched (don't ask why he felt the need to tell me that as I don't know!) and I felt an even bigger freak 😰

DH loves my boobs but honestly I can take or leave when he touches them.

Weirdly I hated having my nipples touched before DC, it was really tickley made me get a horrible feeling in my mouth. I got exactly the same thing when breastfeeding.
Since DC4 though I found I really love it.

So glad to know it is not just me. I was fine before having ds but have never liked dh touching them since.

Omg always thought it was just me. Although for me they are super sensitive in a pain way, nipple touching (even writing that!) makes me criiinge!! Same as pp, breastfeeding was never ever going to happen for me, god knows why I was surprised when I couldn't do it and it hurt, hurt, like hell!

Omfg...I would of never ever admitted to this,fearing I was a freak...is this something else that we are made to feel as a woman we should enjoy....like cooking cleaning ironing....bastards

I am not alone have always felt like a weirdo.
Have never enjoyed them being touched, and it didn't change after breastfeeding. I have very small boobs if that is linked?

is this something else that we are made to feel as a woman we should enjoy....like cooking cleaning ironing

Another one who thought it was just me!

Made worse by men manhandling them when younger

I hate it too - having my nipples touched gives me a raging thirst!

I am so glad I am not the only one. I hate it when DH touches them, think it was ok before I had DS .

I hate nipples being touched too. Makes me feel really angry and sick Didn't realise it was so common. I was worried bf would be uncomfortable too. In the end I couldn't breastfeed as DS was prem and couldn't latch but even the breastpump was a nightmare.

I love it - it's 50% of the pleasure of sex for me.

Unless I have PMT or am breastfeeding. Then the toucher-of-boobs is in danger of getting a black eye.

I've never had mine touched but i hate the thought of it. Not that the feeling is unpleasant(as far as i can go off from washing/checking them myself), but i am self conscious of them.
One is a large C verging on a small D with a lovely full rounded shape, the other isn't quite a B and has less fullness and a more upside down triangular shape for want of a better description. They don't look quite as odd/mismatched since i got the smaller one pierced, it pulls the attention to the nipple of the smaller one so the focus isn't on just their size, which has improved my tolerance of them, but getting bras to fit obviously doesnt work. I've always felt like when (if) i have a physical partner (only had LDR's due to health issues getting out to actually meet people) that i wouldn't really like them touched as you definitely feel the massive size difference, and i'd always keep my bra on so not being seen etc, but i do hope i find someone i'm comfortable enough with i wouldn't care.