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To think work are taking the piss now

237 replies

DelphineCormier · 03/02/2017 21:32

Posted another thread a few weeks ago and don't really want to go into all that again, but brief summary, my boss tried to cancel my booked holiday two days in advance because colleague 1 had been forced to take early maternity leave unexpectedly. Couldn't persuade anyone else to cover the shift so told me I would have to cancel my holiday booked for that day as my cover was needed to cover colleague 1. I had worked xmas day on the basis I would get this day off, eventual outcome was colleague 2 was persuaded to cover my shift. Maternity cover for colleague 1 eventually started a week later, boss had struggled finding cover.

Colleague 3 is also pregnant, and has just put in a request to start early maternity leave. Boss is freaking out slightly over this as colleague 3 had said she would start maternity leave much later iyswim, colleague 1 was early but not this early. Cover has been found, but will not do weekend shifts. I have been 'asked' if I will take on colleague 3's Sunday shift until an alternative solution is found. I am allowed to say no, although colleague 3 and other colleagues are putting a lot of pressure on me to do this.

I already work Saturday mornings and am a single parent. Not left with a lot of time when I would actually see my child if I were also working Sundays! I would get another half day off during the week but no guarantee what hours this will be. Childcare on Sundays would be an absolute nightmare. No one else works both days at the weekend, and lots don't work weekends at all. AIBU to tell them to ask pressurise someone else?

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girlelephant · 10/02/2017 15:15

Hope all is ok OP Flowers

DelphineCormier · 10/02/2017 20:44

I have an update! Been in work today, yes. She''s been given a written warning and had it made clear to her that this is her final, final chance. She has Fridays off so haven't had to face her today, but apparently I will be apologised to sincerely on Monday. Whether or not I believe that I'm not sure, but HR are taking it all pretty seriously and have told me to report any other problems to them immediately. Colleague who caused all the drama over Christmas shifts bought me a coffee this morning, clearly feeling very apologetic. So I'm hopeful that this will be the end of it. Thank you to you all for the support provided on this thread Flowers

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EweAreHere · 10/02/2017 20:56

I hope she does apologize and that is the end of it.

Enjoy your Sunday with your little one. :)

CookieLady · 10/02/2017 20:57

That's great news. The woman was bordering on unhinged! Wine for you. Smile

flumpsnlumpsnstuff · 10/02/2017 21:09

No is a complete sentence.
I've been here and ended up really ill with all the stress, believe me they won't thank you in the long run.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 10/02/2017 22:17

She''s been given a written warning and had it made clear to her that this is her final, final chance

Thank god for that ... I only hope they mean it

girlelephant · 10/02/2017 22:32

Excellent!

TheMaddHugger · 11/02/2017 01:19

⭐⭐⭐

Itwillbefine · 11/02/2017 07:20

Good news

MipMipMip · 11/02/2017 08:03

Great news. Can I congratulate you on the dignified way you have handled this? Been very impressed.

WhatchaMaCalllit · 11/02/2017 13:13

Fantastic result OP.

I too think you handled this brilliantly and wanted to say that.

BlueFolly · 11/02/2017 13:22

Excellent!

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