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Many, many people took recreational drugs in the 90s. Where are they now?

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perhapsiwill · 02/02/2017 07:47

I'm not a drug addict and none of my friends were at the time, we just took Es at the weekend, sometimes other drugs. We all went to work or college, seemed like everyone else did this too. We had a great time, weekends were for dancing and hugging, I didn't get on with drunk people and one night stands and it suited me much better.
I moved away from where I grew up, nice area to another nice area.
When I mention partying in my youth to other mums where I live now, they look at me as if I'm an addict who needs help Confused.
Are they all pretending? There were thousands of us doing this so where are they now? And why do people who never took drugs appear to feel so morally superior? One of the women where I live openly talks about cheating the system financially yet looks at me like I'm scum because I went out and had fun 20 years ago. (And probably once a year now!) I feel that because I mentioned this one evening in a pub I have alienated myself from the local mums.

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FrankiesKnuckle · 08/02/2017 20:49

Psycho That bass drop Grin

Here's another fave - saw underworld last year at the roundhouse, Karl Hyde is just amazing.

psychoactive · 08/02/2017 21:03

This this this my actual BEST

'burgundy maestro' 😀

perhapsiwill · 08/02/2017 21:05

This was the tune that got me listening to dance music.
m.youtube.com/watch?v=QM_8PiSMpTs

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Dulcimena · 08/02/2017 21:07

psycho Grin

perhapsiwill · 08/02/2017 21:08

Oh I saw leftfield too. Brilliant!

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CheckpointCharlie2 · 08/02/2017 21:09

❤️️❤️️❤️️❤️️❤️️❤️️❤️️👏👏👏👏👏👏😜😜 is how I feel in emojis listening to all this stuff.

SalemSaberhagen · 08/02/2017 21:12

mad to do ecstasy with your husband on a night off from the kids is shocking. And not in a good way.

CoteDAzur · 08/02/2017 21:20

Why on Earth would it be "shocking" what a woman does with her lawfully wedded husband, especially when not in charge of their children? What business is it of yours? Seriously Hmm

And then people get offended when it is pointed out that this behaviour is called "pearl clutching".

SalemSaberhagen · 08/02/2017 21:23

What do you mean what business is it of mine? She posted it on a public forum, inviting response. What a ridiculous question.

It shocked me that people with young dependants would take ecstasy. I wasn't screaming for SS to intervene, was I? What I said was in no way pearl clutching. Defensive much?

perhapsiwill · 08/02/2017 21:23

This was a fabulous night in Brighton.

m.youtube.com/watch?v=m6phH4uXjVg

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perhapsiwill · 08/02/2017 21:32

Oh and here is some gabba. You might want to turn it off soon after you press play Confused.

m.youtube.com/watch?v=_WJKmsQL3l0

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BenadrylCucumberpatch · 08/02/2017 21:33

I'm late to the party!!! Grin Grin

I have to say, you all have amazing taste in music I'm dancing while cleaning the kitchen right now

BenadrylCucumberpatch · 08/02/2017 21:39

perhapsiwill after your last post, I have a feeling you might like this!

m.youtube.com/watch?v=VUMnk9_e-jY

BenadrylCucumberpatch · 08/02/2017 21:44

Do any of you know who this is? If so, lets be friends Smile

Many, many people took recreational drugs in the 90s. Where are they now?
perhapsiwill · 08/02/2017 21:50

Benadryl Well that is slightly better than the one I posted! It's a bit too crazy for me nowadays!

m.youtube.com/watch?v=B-US91WU8zA

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BabychamSocialist · 08/02/2017 21:54

Well I only ever did weed and poppers, and I turned out fine. I'm a teacher now, in the SLT.

I think most people just sort of grew out of it.

FrankiesKnuckle · 08/02/2017 21:58

Great tune perhapsiwill
Are we in the spangled chillout room now? 😉

perhapsiwill · 08/02/2017 22:01

Frankie it's getting late now, so yes.

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psychoactive · 08/02/2017 22:06

Spangled is such a Bad Word, for ages I thought it meant sparkly like rhinestones.

FrankiesKnuckle · 08/02/2017 22:06

And drift away in a haze.....

psychoactive · 08/02/2017 22:07

Oops I meant

psychoactive · 08/02/2017 22:09
BeIIatrixLeStrange · 08/02/2017 22:29

Reach for the lazers, safe as fuck

BenadrylCucumberpatch · 08/02/2017 23:19

I have to share this with you!

m.youtube.com/watch?v=EbZxOchyxD8

20years later and this gives me goosebumps..

perhapsiwill · 09/02/2017 13:00

That was wonderful. Thanks everyone Flowers.
I will endeavour to pick what I share with my new mummy friends in future or just stick to going out with my old mates who are all a bit dodgy and not at all judgy.
I like to be open with people but it seems there are lots of things that I have chosen to do differently to some people and will keep my mouth shut now. Unless of course I spot the secret codes. Wink

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