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To think Jehovah's Witnesses can become a bit of an annoyance

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UnbelievablyChocolatey · 01/02/2017 11:21

There are two ladies that often come round our estate. There are many others that also come, but this particular couple are the ones who seem to call the most.
As I'm a SAHM I'm usually at home when they call. I would never be deliberately rude to them, but I'm getting a bit annoyed by them continually coming to my house. They know I've recently had a baby as the first time they came I was pregnant. They even turned up the day I went into labour and DH answered the door to them!

Last time I saw them they were hinting at coming inside to meet the baby. How on earth do I politely tell them I'm not interested? Some of the others who have been don't seem to take no for an answer!

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user1471526846 · 02/02/2017 12:29

JustAnotherPoster.... all religions are dangerous cults?? You really think that?? How ignorant and scary. I'm guessing you are a trump supporterror.

CockacidalManiac · 02/02/2017 12:29

Most religions are pretty vile, Jews chop bits off babies, extremist muslims commit the most horrific atrocities and christians follow the bible, which recommends sacficing those who wear mixed fibres (Leviticus).

Apart from this daft 'whataboutery' on display here, I've been on threads discussing exactly that.

CockacidalManiac · 02/02/2017 12:30

JustAnotherPoster.... all religions are dangerous cults?? You really think that?? How ignorant and scary. I'm guessing you are a trump supporterror.

Don't take that straw man near any naked flames. 'Supporterror'?!

Formerpigwrestler9 · 02/02/2017 12:31

the practice of oral suction circumcision in Orthodox Judaism
😱
Never heard of that and too scared to google it
Wtf 😵

CaraAspen · 02/02/2017 12:31

"Ouriana

It should be critiqued but the second a poster mentioned Hitler it got shot down with "Godwins".

How is it ridiculous to suggest people show some respect for religins equally?

If I started a thread like this about Islam it wold be pulled. So why is it ridiculous?"

Islamic people do not make a nuisance of themselves by accosting people at their house door. Read the OP again.

thetreesarebare · 02/02/2017 12:32

Personally I've never had anyone from any other religion or cult persistently knock my door & try to convert me to their beliefs. No matter how many times I tell them I'm not interested. I know lots of JW who have been brought up in the cult/religion. The only people I know that have joined in later life have been extremely vulnerable.

herewecomeawassailing · 02/02/2017 12:34

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CockacidalManiac · 02/02/2017 12:37

It isnt whataboutery its a valid point that on mumsnet JWs are fair game whereas other religions are treated with respect.

Er, no. There was a proper bun fight on here recently, spread over three threads.

Ouriana · 02/02/2017 12:38

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CockacidalManiac · 02/02/2017 12:39

We've had threads discussing circumcision, we've had threads discussing Islam. MistressMia was an apostate from Islam, IIRC. I used to enjoy those threads, and i used to like reading her stuff.
Stop with the special pleading.

Ouriana · 02/02/2017 12:40

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CockacidalManiac · 02/02/2017 12:41

Ouriana

If you've got a problem with specific posts, report them. MN seem to be deleting with gusto.

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CockacidalManiac · 02/02/2017 12:42

I read and laughed a lot at that bun fight and it was religion in general. Its the singling out one religion I dislike.

Well, if you recall it was mostly concerning Creationism. It's ok to have a go at them, then?

acatcalledjohn · 02/02/2017 12:43

They aren't "ramming it down your throat" by preaching in a town centre!

No? When someone is preaching at volume 10 it's hard to not hear it.

If I want to become religious I'll find my own info, thank you. Trying to recruit/convert me by turning up on my doorstep or shouting about how Jesus died for me I didn't fucking ask him whilst I'm trying to do my banking or a spot of shopping is going to do the absolutely opposite. I don't want to hear it. I was forced to go to church as a kid and as a result I cannot stand having it forced on me in any way. It's rude. And you can say what you like, but they look down on us 'poor' people because we haven't found their faith. As if somehow they are better because they believe.

Plus if you feel the need to force it on people then is it really something that will enrich their lives? No. Things worth finding will be found. And what is worth finding is personal to everyone, so let people find their own beliefs.

CaraAspen · 02/02/2017 12:44

"Ouriana

Islamic people do not make a nuisance of themselves? "

BY KNOCKING AT MY DOOR.

Do try to focus.

HyacinthsBucket · 02/02/2017 12:44

I used to work with a lovely lady that was a JW. She'd joined up at 16 when she met her DH, and she would often explain their religion and beliefs without trying to sign you up but her deference to her DH and the fact her 4 uber intelligent DDs were all taken out of education at 14 to "spread the word" broke my heart. She wasn't allowed to vote, had to ask her DHs permission for everything and even her part time job (that incidentally fed them all as DH was a useless arse) was on his terms. It particularly upset me that her DDs are all bright intelligent young women with huge futures but their only goal in life is marriage to another JW and a life of subservience. I've always thought it a horribly male dominated religion myself.

CockacidalManiac · 02/02/2017 12:46

And I've just found this thread about Islam, after about 5 seconds of searching. There's plenty more.

Ouriana · 02/02/2017 12:47

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CockacidalManiac · 02/02/2017 12:50

Only one brother still believes but we still have a great close relationship.
But we never discuss religion, homophobia, blood transfusions or several other things that make me want to kill them

Well, there we go then. You're not willing to challenge them, so nobody can do that either.

CockacidalManiac · 02/02/2017 12:51

Every time there's a terrorost attack, we get loads of threads about Islam. The circumcision one is even back doing the rounds here at the moment. Stop the special pleading.

herewecomeawassailing · 02/02/2017 12:53

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