To ask my DH to stop posting such bolleux on sisal media!

[Boombah]

It drives me fucking bananas.

He's almost 50 and behaving like a prat. Today was the final straw (I already unfriended him because he kept tagging me and posting personal photos of the DC and they were public). He also posts check ins I don't want 700 randoms knowing where we are at any given moment.

Today he posted that we were at hospital with a photo of my dd's IV. WTF

Seriously if I catch him gurning (so he can attempt a chiseled jaw one more time I will see red)

He does next to nothing- is a lazy shit and will only come out with us if he can do something exciting or arty to get about a dozen selfies which he posts. WHY?

rant over

paxillin I asked friends to check and they've been defriended- slightly awkward text convos right there

Now I'm paranoid he could be putting all sorts on there without my knowledge.

Wow I cannot believe he's ditched me on the Insta/Snapchat accounts.

Is a narcissist vain?

Er yes very amongst many other traits. He sounds a real peach!

So he's continuing to mock and humiliate you and to lie about you, but now you've expressed that you are upset and your friends have expressed concern, he's decided to do it in a way where you won't find out.

He's not listened to your concerns and decided to value your feelings and show you respect and be open about doing so. Instead he's decided that your feelings don't matter, your friends concerns don't matter, all that matters is him getting cheap laughs at your expense. And if he's going to be asked to hear your feelings about this or to show you respect, he's going to carry on but make sure you don't find out.

Bombah please please, for your children's sake, if not for your own, get as far away from this man as you can.

If you caught him cheating on you publicly and told him how upset and humiliated you were, and his response was that next time he'd make sure he wasn't caught, would you still stay

He does sound horrid. Here for you.

if he's on twitter you can sometimes still see what he is posting by logging yourself out.

Somehow you can be blocked by someone, but I think because it is all public the blocking only works if the blocked person is logged in. If that makes sense?

i don't know if it works for instagram/fb, i keep meaning to try, but i just cannot face resetting all my forgotten passwords.

I'm sorry but this is just madness. He unfriends real life friends so he can get attention from people he probably doesn't really know that well!?

How would he feel if you took credit for things that he did? Dinners, decorating etc. How can he not see that he is totally taking the piss. I think I would have lost my shit with him by now.

My husband and i are divorcing.

He never treated me with anything close to the disrespect and disdain your husband is.

I can't understand why you want to be with him.

Less husband and wife, more like mortal enemies.

Well blinky perhaps I'm a bigger twat that him.

Well blinky perhaps I'm a bigger twat that him

OK.... now I'm really worried about you. Obviously mumnet only gives a slice of your life but in all your posts on this thread you have been reasonable and empathic, while he has treated you and your children appallingly.

I get the feeling that it maybe him who has convinced you that you are the problem.

you talk about him with real contempt

The OPs last comment reads like her 'd'h has hacked her account.

Either that or I am reading it wrong!

Oh Boombah of course you're not a twat love

But this guy is an arse hole. Seriously, how can you put up with this utter contempt?

You have had such an enormous shock, I know. But please, for the love of all that is holy, be kind to yourself. All this "I'm a twat" talk is not doing you any good and it is about as inaccurate as you can possibly get

Boombah, change your passwords, name change and post again in a more subject specific topic. This fakebook issue sounds like the tip of a very big iceberg.

And, as the size of twats goes, your husband increasingly appears to be unsurpassable.

I know a woman who never misses an opportunity to post a photo of her kids in hospital or the doctors. She's also the type who asks Facebook what time the shop shuts. She's a cretin.

Your rant made me lol!!!!!! Hide his phone and hope to fuck he forgets about his social media obsession

Crikey, this man is obsessed! My sympathies are with you.

Your total denigration aside, the risk to his children's safety is present. I'm sure its been suggested before, but i'd be reporting it to the websites concerned and get them to remove every photo posted of your children and your locational data.

Mrsemcgregor, I read it like that too.
My ex used to do stupid stuff too like this.
He even shared v personal pics with a person he was chatting to.
He also hacked my accounts etc and has lighted me and made me believe I was going crackers.

littlefrog I hope we are wrong, otherwise that is very nauseating

I hope so too