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That people in the south think they are better than those in the north

544 replies

EatsShitAndLeaves · 19/12/2016 01:02

That's it really.

I'm interested in your opinion.

OP posts:
RoseGoldHippie · 19/12/2016 02:12

Did you move to south London grin they don't drink their tea with a finger out... fair play if you made it to Surrey and a massive amount of points if you made it to Kent

Haha no I went all the way to south Devon! Just always put a stupid accent on when I say down south! No idea why just said it as a joke once and it stuck

ImYourWomanJonSnow · 19/12/2016 02:14

Midlands more likely

EatsShitAndLeaves · 19/12/2016 02:14

Because I wanted opinions...that's why the thread Hmm

OP posts:
ImYourWomanJonSnow · 19/12/2016 02:15

That was for Moving

Manumission · 19/12/2016 02:15

No you don't. You want a fight.

RoseGoldHippie · 19/12/2016 02:18

No you don't. You want a fight

Totally random fight subject though!

Manumission · 19/12/2016 02:20

Usually is in AIBU Smile

Manumission · 19/12/2016 02:21

AIBU?
YABU!
No I'm not!
Yes you are!
Ad bloody nauseam Wink

ILikeyourHairyHands · 19/12/2016 02:25

As a Northerner who has lived all over the UK, I can say there was a bias against Northerners when I worked in the city, flat vowels were not especially welcome, I also notice a strange fear and confusion about the North from some Southerners, dyed in the wool prejudice about our 'flat cap' existence.

Conversely, many Northerners have a distrust of Southern incomers who tend to infiltrate the more desirable areas of the North with their Southern money after selling their two bed flat in Clapham and buying a 10 acre small-holding and opening a vanity business and pissing all over the locals with their fancy Southern ways.

I'm obviously on the Northern side of this divide (and there is a divide), I do think Southerners sometimes have strange ideas about the area North of the Watford Gap, I've experienced it, it ain't a fantasy, and Southern money from buying a very modest property can, when brought up north can distort a local economy quite badly.

However, there are some very cosmopolitan and exciting cities in the North, in fact, three out of five of the UK's major cities are in the North (one is in the midlands, but as a PP said, they largely go unnoticed).

I wouldn't say Southerners think they're necessarily better, but they do sometimes display hilariously ignorant views about their Northern counterparts which aren't shared the other way (as most people from the North understand the South).

SuffolkBumkin · 19/12/2016 02:28

Great post HairyHands

PenguinsandPebbles · 19/12/2016 02:30

Oh dear me rose hope your enjoying those cream teas

And have a me lovver from me

Because all people in Devon say that

DeepanKrispanEven · 19/12/2016 02:35

Case in point...

I'm nowhere near Blackpool tower.

Yet the jolly northern japes have started....

Case in point indeed, but not in the way you think. The reference to Blackpool Tower was obviously in response to the earlier reference to Big Ben, yet you chose to take offence. No-one from Devon popped up to complain that they live nowhere near Big Ben.

I think that may go a long way towards explaining your views on the issue in question, OP.

RoseGoldHippie · 19/12/2016 02:36

penguins oooh I do love a cream tea! That's normally when in being out my fastest cake in the world gem! which no one ever finds as funny as i do Smile

Electrolens · 19/12/2016 02:39

What do you draw your line of prejudice OP? An interested question from us
midlands folk... You're the first person I've ever heard such prejudice from

HennaFlare · 19/12/2016 02:40

No, quite the opposite. I was raised in the south by northern parents who mocked my southern accent for most of my childhood. I don't know what they expected from raising children in Surrey instead of Tyneside / Manchester but they seemed permanently perplexed by my pronunciation and accent.

PenguinsandPebbles · 19/12/2016 02:41

oh OP you can raise eyebrows Hmm at me for asking the question "why did you start the thread" but it seems a bit off if you haven't come across any prejudice.

My dear old dad bless his socks was from the most northern part of Scotland, he met Nessie :) he really did I know he didn't really but as kids we humoured him we all talk very posh :) being from Kent and all.

If your going to ask questions about the "great divide" answer why

I strangely want a cream tea...

SabineUndine · 19/12/2016 02:55

I'm a northerner who lives in London and I can tell you that the only people who bother about stuff like this are northerners with a chip on their shoulder. Most Londoners are not wealthy, they are ordinary people who have to deal with insane house prices and traffic congestion in return for a job.

UnbelievablyChocolatey · 19/12/2016 02:58

I have a friend who was born in Liverpool and has lived in London for several years now. She said the North and South just seem to have a very different sense of humour. She said she has to 'adjust' her personality slightly when she's amongst her southern friends or her northern family. I don't think she ever felt like people treated her badly when she moved down there, but there is a noticeable difference in the way people behave

SmallBee · 19/12/2016 03:00

After reading about all these people with chips on their shoulders..... I really want some chips.
Also a cream tea.

BreatheDeep · 19/12/2016 03:36

In answer to the OP - No I don't think that. From my experience.

SorenLorensonsInvisibleFriend · 19/12/2016 03:50

I'm a southerner. Paraphrasing Bob Dylan, 'I'm better than no-one, and no-one is better than me'.

I did live near Manchester/Liverpool for a few years and found that there was a perception of me based on my accent which wasn't always accurate. My natural way of pronouncing 'path' 'bath' etc apparently sounded very posh, and I even got called hoity-toity and stuff like that. Not my actual character by a long stretch.

Southsearocks · 19/12/2016 04:03

Every time I go North to visit my husbands family they take the piss out of my "posh" accent, and our son's. They assume Southerners look down on Northerners but really, noone gives a monkeys.

If you've met a few people who've made you feel there is a divide then you've met a small minority and it's unfair to assume all Southerners/Northerners feel the same.

Mummyoflittledragon · 19/12/2016 04:19

Is it a perception op rather than reality?

I'm southern, went to uni up north. Everyone was so warm and friendly - I've never been called "love" in my life before I went in shops. I loved living there and missed it when I moved back down south for work.

I now live in the Midlands and don't consider myself superior to my dd or my friends. My dh, well that's a different story - he's French. (That was a joke btw).

TBH in my experience, if someone ranks themselves and others, they do this with EVEYONE, who isn't THEM. So it doesn't matter if you're talking about north/south snobbery, those from different countries or even houses in a village.

KitKats28 · 19/12/2016 04:47

The problem is that people who moan about the "South" see the UK a bit like this.

That people in the south think they are better than those in the north
LouisvilleLlama · 19/12/2016 04:53

YABU I don't give it much thought though now it's bought up I think the opposite, maybe it's a general thing always hearing how the other side of the country is meant to be so great etc

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