As a headteacher, do you think girls are more likely to apply for places that will accept them?
Yes. Boys too. By the time you're applying for Uni, you need to have realistic expectations. We don't encourage someone without a flair for a subject to apply to study it in a Russel Group Uni.
As a headteacher, why do you think boys are more likely to apply for computer sciences and girls are more likely to apply for English?
Because they tend to be better at them. It suits their style of learning, or retaining and using information and then turning that education into a job which allows them to be successful members of society.
Do you, as a headteacher, think this is a problem? Do you, as a headteacher, encourage your pupils to do subjects that are normally seen as male / female?
If they're good at them then yes. If they aren't that good at them but enjoy it then in lower secondary I'd encourage them to work hard, join clubs, ask for extra help etc. I don't base expectations regarding a student's sex on any of their choices. I would encourage any student equally, if they have the aptitude, interest, enjoyment or whatever else is necessary.
As a headteacher, how do you tackle those feelings and what do you say to pupils who have these concerns?
At my school, IT is a compulsory / additional GCSE which 99% of students take. Science(s) is of course compulsory, as is a modern language, Eng lang and lit. We don't offer Food Technology and DT / Graphics/Art/Drama are fairly evenly split.
Therefore, this would only come up for a child moving on to A Levels. By that age (assuming this isn't an actual concern) I'd tell them to grow the fuck up or words to that effect. If they have a chip on their shoulder about the opposite sex and they're being treated equally by their peers, I'd give them short shrift. I'd want them to explain how their ideas were anything other than bigotry toward the other sex.
Happily, I've never been in this situation. By encouraging an atmosphere where everyone is judged on their merits and not their vagina / willy, no student has ever wanted to avoid a particular subject because of too many of the opposite sex. I've had a case recently where a student was asked by his teacher why he wanted to take Mandarin (he's not a good Mandarinist). He's response was a list of pretty girls who were taking the class. He would have been one of two boys.
I am stunned to hear you say that. I really am. It's like you've never heard of barriers in work - especially in STEM. Those barriers have been discussed on here and are freely available if you research, As a headteacher, you should really be aware of barriers to learning and barriers groups face in work.
I'm quite aware of claims thanks. I worked in STEM. Before changing careers I was a coding geek.
As I've said and keep saying, I firmly believe that we have equality of opportunity ie. the barriers no longer exist.
The reason men are in the majority of STEM jobs is for factors such as male / female brains as opposed to the nasty patriarchy.