So you see - to respond to the conspiracy theorists by saying 'I can't believe that social workers/lawyers/judges would make wrong/bad decisions...' actually plays right into their hands.
There just has to be open, honest, clear eyed engagement with these very real and troubling issues
I agree totally with this. As an adopter, I know what tack my son's birth family will take if/when they have contact in the future. It's all lies, conspiracies and unfairness. I obviously have all the information, chapter and verse, on the the opportunities to change, help offered, multiple agencies supporting and genuine will to create supportive structures that were ignored, abused and generally discarded.
However, the instances where fuck ups happen (e.g. my child's life story work having the wrong name and birth date, court papers containing details of contact sessions that weren't my son's, court deadlines missed) can give credibility to the wilder claims and have allowed my son's family to absolve themselves of any accountability for his removal - they can demonstrate that sloppy work was done so therefore, in their minds now, EVERYTHING that social workers did was sloppy and fucked up.
The use of targets make a me fearful that birth mum will latch onto the notion with glee - yet more evidence that she was wronged. And it's crucial that my son understands he wasn't removed from his birth family unfairly and with no opportunity for them to have turned things around or his trust in ME will be diminished.
If we try and pretend that over stretched services and sometimes just poor performing social workers don't fuck up or that things are running totally perfectly with no issues, we risk opening the door to conspiracy claims and those that seek to raise their own profiles exploiting it. I think the TP project are doing fantastic work by challenging all aspects of the debate and challenging where it's needed.