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AIBU?

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To feel annoyed at my friends and a little bit betrayed?

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whataspectacle · 13/12/2016 07:31

Long time lurker but first time posting. Hoping I can get some perspective on this from you.
My exH is getting remarried next year. He is marrying the woman who he had an affair with when we were married. This isn't the issue. As far as I'm concerned she is more than welcome to him and my 2ds's love her.
The issue is that he has invited 2 friends of mine to the wedding. These happen to be 2 of my closest friends who saw me at my weakest and most broken hearted when he first left me. He treated me very badly both in our marriage and for a while afterwards and they were there through it all.
They used to be mutual friends to both me and exH but have only recently started being back in contact with him.
AIBU to feel betrayed? I know they are adults and they can make their own decisions and if they want to go they have every right. Please help me!!

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whataspectacle · 15/12/2016 15:43

So pleased that I asked advice, thank you to everyone who has replied. I now need to have a heart to heart with them and let them decide. It's up to them ultimately not me.

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whataspectacle · 15/12/2016 15:50

Sorry for anyone who was quoted in the DM. Can't believe that those idiots have nothing better to do that trawl through Mumsnet. I am genuinely grateful for all of the support and perspective you have all given me and so sorry it has somehow become tabloid fodder. Sad

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