Weird that the two people who are calling others shallow, idiotic, a twat etc are also deciding who comes across as lovely or not. Bizarre..
Like it or not people are judging you the instant you walk out the door, the whole of life is generally a competition. You will get judged at every step of the way right from a small child. If your child and another child have done an excellent on building a model for a school competition but one is pristine and clean and the other one is full of jam stains, we all know which one will win. If your answer is wrong in a test but your handwriting is perfect and presentation brilliant, you might get another point.
If you saw a politician get up on a podium in a creased shirt it would be all over the news the next day. The actual words he/she said would be irrelevant everything would be about the creased shirt.
If a midwife came round looking scruffy and unkempt you might wonder about her hygiene standards.
Like it or not, argue all you like, call people all the names under the sun but people judge by the image you and yours portray. If you think you look good enough by not ironing your clothes or whatever then that really is your look out and I couldn't care less what you do!
However for me, in my world, I would rather portray a different image.
There really is no need to get upset and start frothing and hand wringing and slinging insults 