So internet dating - I'm messaging with a new guy (about third or fourth message) and ask what he likes to do in his leisure time. His response "I play with myself a lot. It's good exercise". This is from a man who described himself as shy so a little unexpected to say the least. I'm a bit gobsmacked so I reply "?? Have I misunderstood?" to which he responds "It's good for you". It's not the playing with himself I'm opposed to, everyone does it. It's not usually something you share in early conversation with someone you're getting to know though is it? Would you be put off talking with him or AIBU? 