I just wanted to say a huge thank you to MNers for their help and advice on my post yesterday which got picked up by DM - about unreasonable D H and public car humiliation . You were a huge, huge support. There isn't really anyone I can confide in in RL, so I am really thankful.
Also thank you to those who reported the thread to MN
I have namechanged. Hugely grateful to MN and all posters. Thank you. 