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AIBU to wince at a lot of baby wearing

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PetalMettle · 03/11/2016 15:48

Baby wearing seems to have got a lot more popular in the last few years which is obviously potentially a good thing but people don't seem to know the TICKS guidelines. I frequently see children half way down their parents torsos and not properly supported. There was a kid the other day whose feet were wandering around his fathers groin. I always feel like I should say something because potential danger but that I can't. Anyone else have this?

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Bummymummy77 · 03/11/2016 22:35

Keep calm and carry them is a great carrying resource. She's a lovely lady that does videos on every type of carry you can imagine.

From absolute beginner to complicated double kid stuff.

vichill · 03/11/2016 22:36

my dd swings low but thats often because she sees being in the sling as a perfect opportunity to wrangle a boob out. I personally think the TICKS thing can be relaxed when carrying toddlers.

SalemSaberhagen · 03/11/2016 22:41

vichill I remember the first time I mastered feeding in the sling. I felt like I could conquer the world!

Bummymummy77 · 03/11/2016 22:43

When carrying a toddler ticks doesn't count.

Ds is almost three and when he's carried (by me, dh just bought a posh new hiking backpack for him) it's because he want to nurse.

So I rig him up like some crazy thing from Mad Max and stagger around under his weight while trying to stop him shouting "yay boobs" at every passer by. Grin

BertieBotts · 03/11/2016 22:57

Not strictly after about 6 months but certainly for little ones.

However that's one of the reasons carrying them on the front becomes impractical after a while, because you can't see over their head. You wouldn't carry a toddler on your front but on your back.

CheshireChat · 04/11/2016 01:59

Thanks for answering! I was just curious as I have absolutely no intention to start carrying him again. If nothing else, he's far too feral at this point Wink.

NeedsAsockamnesty · 04/11/2016 02:47

I use a wrap sling sometimes mainly because on the days I use it my body hurts so much I can't get the pram out of the car boot, it's bugger all to do with being fanatical about anything.

I had a lesson with a lady at the time of purchase as I'm a clusterfuck with certain things. It petrified me before I was comfortable with the thing. But I still use my arms round the baby because it's nice and I like to.

I was at a farm the other day and next to the pigs a chap with a baby in the same sling (far to low down and lose and face looked scary dangerious) I just said "can I show you how to make that much safer and more comfortable" I said it kindly he took it kindly and let me show him, no problems.

If you do things kindly amd not in a im better than you way and only when it's something actually dangerious (and not a subjective thing) stuff like a face being covered or a car seat incorrectly fitted people usually are pleased if you help rather than pissed off.

newangelabrown018 · 23/05/2019 08:43

While going through the internet i found an article www.newmomstuff.com/the-best-baby-carrier-for-petite-moms-the-only-guide-you-need for choosing a baby bottle for acid reflux but the comparison chart section in the article made me confused... i am confused among Comotomo Baby Bottle and Dr. Brown’s Original Wide-Neck Bottle Newborn Feeding Set...WHICH ONE SHOULD I PICK?? has any one has any personal experience about these two??

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