I've changed for this as I can anticipate the response. That should say enough about how long I've been around here.
DP and I are both smokers, have been since we met a few years ago.
Yesterday after a heavy night and on a hangover DP decided unilaterally, with no discussion that he was giving up smoking. He then TOLD me I had to smoke outside from now on.
I fully support his desire to give up if that's what he wants. I'm not there right now, I have some other things I want to focus on first in terms of self improvement.
But again, this was completely out of the blue.
It is the coldest time of the year. I had no say. But in an attempt to assist I have been going out by the back door of a very small open plan house to try and help him.
Today I went to go out and it was raining, I said, I'm not going right out, it's raining. He said 'so go outside the front under the fucking porch then'. And that point I bit back and said 'so go get ready and go out for your fucking work meal then'. I did then go out the front.
He then got ready and stormed out telling me how horrible I was. I did try and apologise for being rude.
AIBU? I'm frustrated that I can't sit in front of my TV in my warm house and have a fag?
I understand him wanting to give up, but to be told I have to go outside with no discussion at the coldest time of the year is just fucking me off frankly.