My mother likes plates to be crazy hot, ditto serving dishes.
DH doesn't.
Have spent a memorable couple of Christmas lunches at my house where my mum has tried to heat the plates and dishes up and dh has been taking them out of the oven to cool them down (particularly when the DC were young) - and repeat, both of them getting more annoyed with the other for being ridiculous in wanting hot/cold plates and moving the plates in or out of the oven when they'd just deliberately put them out or in...
Did not make a good start for Christmas lunch!