Nc'd for this as very outing
MIL has terminal brain tumours, currently at her home but has only months left, she's unsteady on her feet, repetitive and has occasional seizures but otherwise ok.
She volunteers at a large central London tourist attraction and wants DH and her to go with 3 DCs during half term.
I have asked him not to, and instead wait until another adult can go (I can't get the day off work to go too early), as:
- she will be in a wheelchair
- they will have to get cab, train, bus/cab either way, a good hour and a half in either direction
-if she gets taken ill (which could happen, her seizures are not totally controlled) he will have to send her off in ambulance alone, to a hospital a good 1.5 hours away from her/our homes
- She will also not manage more than a couple of hours as she tires so easily now
I have suggested instead they go to one of myriad local attractions he can drive directly to/from that is nearer her house/hospital/hospice/husband if she dies get taken ill, that will be less intense then we find another weekend we can all go to 'her' place so I can be in charge of DCs and he his mum.
So, AIBU?
DCs are 11, 9, 7