My MIL is either lovely or a complete cow.
Big detached house in the priciest suburbs in my city, grew up with staff, children boarding school, worked until 40 part time.
Me on the other hand, daughter of a labourer. Done well for myself through education. I know she looks down on my side.
On results day, my daughter got a freak result in one subject and As in everything else she wantes to study further at AS.
She phoned her granny from Italy as promised to share news. Granny said she shouldve worked harder, shouldnt have wasted time going to lectures at Oxford. Shouldnt waste time in bed or playing on the computer. Shouldnt have spent her own earned cash on visiting universities. Time to pull her finger out. My daughter told her to f off as she was upset already.
Then when home, lectures on how well her friends grandkids had done as they go to the boarding schools her father and aunt went to.
Granny told her that she might not get into Oxford or a top 10 university but her results werent that bad. 
When your uncle was at oxford.....
We've decided not to tell granny where she's applied to university. (In fact she's already had an offer from a top 10 
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AIBU?