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Fucking parking wars part 10000

196 replies

WindInThePussyWillows · 30/09/2016 19:06

They're at it again (see previous 1000000 posts) or quick reminder I have 5 month old twins and my neighbours think they own our road and are getting sweet revenge on me for legally parking on the unrestricted public highway --which they think they own.

Fucking parking wars part 10000
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WindInThePussyWillows · 30/09/2016 23:00

Border of south east and south west

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notausernumber · 30/09/2016 23:02

Wiltshire?

kali110 · 30/09/2016 23:02

Ring 101 when they are blocking you in.
Go to cab or council with your evidence.
You need to stand up to these bullies.
They keep doing it because they think they can get away with it.

Mistletoekids · 30/09/2016 23:20

Im really sorry OP Cake

Mistletoekids · 30/09/2016 23:21

Could you get all the neighbours on board and all go round together to discuss? You could agree as a street who can park where and which spots are open for eg visitors / deliveries etx?

Mistletoekids · 30/09/2016 23:25

Maybe a note through everyone's door along lines of "lovely living with you all. Several of us on the road have been discussing how best to manage parking in the street as there seem to be some issues which keep cropping up. We thought we could come up with a mutually agreed parking plan for each household and visitors / deliveries etc to avoid any issues day-day. We are doing the draft at x on 1st October at 11am. All welcome to attend and contribute. We will post updates on the street" then make plan and post through doors / laminate on lampposts .?

WindInThePussyWillows · 30/09/2016 23:25

Mistletoe i just don't see it'll help. There's no parking issue on our street, everyone has a driveway which is big enough and there's a fair few spots on the road which visitors use but their family of 3 has 1 big van, 5 cars and 3 motor bikes and they won't allow anyone to park on the road as it impedes their ability to park right outside their property. I understand they need the van for work, but they choose to have 5 cars and 3 bikes with a drive fit for 3 cars surely they must have known on odd occasions they may have to park one or two vehicles down the street out of view!

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WindInThePussyWillows · 30/09/2016 23:26

Mistletoe I've text nice neighbour next door. (Other side of me) and she's coming over in the morning to discuss!

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Catinthecorner · 01/10/2016 00:55

Gloucestershire?

GinIceAndASlice · 01/10/2016 01:19

Dorset?

Nanny0gg · 01/10/2016 01:28

Are you allowed to park commercial vehicles on the road in your estate?

You shouldn't in a lot of them.

PikachuSayBoo · 01/10/2016 07:36

I would just start blocking their driveway and see how they like it.

PlumpAndPlain · 01/10/2016 08:10

Dorset council according to the link.....

Google maps for an hour should be enough..

FiveGoMadInDorset · 01/10/2016 08:15

If it's Dorset how can I help, need something to distract from my life at the moment

wheresthel1ght · 01/10/2016 08:19

Wind I would keep reporting to the police especially if you need to be at a medical appointment. I would also send copies of the pictures to the letting agent/landlord and explain that you are not wanting to cause an issue but that if it escalates then they will struggle to rent out or sell as they will have to disclose police involvement and the harassment to any potential tenants/buyers. It is in their interest to resolve it.

MaryPoppinsPenguins · 01/10/2016 08:39

I get the not wanting to piss the landlord off, I used to rent and you just worry that you're completely replaceable by someone who will call them less!

I would honestly call the police everytime.

What happened to your spare car blocking the spot? I think I lost your old thread...

WindInThePussyWillows · 01/10/2016 08:47

MaryPoppins the Tax was due and we don't use it so had to move it and make it SORN. We couldn't afford to tax it just to sit it on the road Angry

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Emus · 01/10/2016 09:16

Seriously OP, call 101 and tell them you feel harassed and bullied and it's effecting your health. I'd also lay it on thick that you are worried you can't access your car in an emergency and with two young twins this is causing stress.

It's a weekend so hopefully a high chance the bullies will be home when the police visit. Please do it.

InTheseFlipFlops · 01/10/2016 09:26

101 every time, it is harassment not a parking issue now.
What utter twats honestly

Tartsamazeballs · 01/10/2016 09:36

Has your husband got some mates that can come and do this and put the car in the middle of the road?

SoupDragon · 01/10/2016 09:40

Can you borrow the local rugby team to stand behind you whilst you politely ask the tosser to move and to stop blocking you in?

MothersGrim · 01/10/2016 09:41

Honestly, I'd wait until he did it again and you get the absolute rage/upset bubbling out over you. Phone 111 and release the hysteria as you are only just post natal it is harassment at a very difficult time of your life. Repeat he's doing it to intimidate you. I don't suppose you are of a different ethnicity to him because I'd love it if you could call it a hate crime.

And then stand there outside and scream! And beep the horn on your car, and should you see twatty neighbour unleash the hounds of hell and explain he got the last 5 months for free because you were too weak to deal with his intimidation but you'll no longer stand for it.

Going to the Daily Mail with the threads is a pretty good idea.

MothersGrim · 01/10/2016 09:46

And I would try and pay for CCTV not a H marking as it will log all harassment of you.

Start a journal, today. Flowers

dowhatnow · 01/10/2016 09:57

What happened to the last tenants? Do you know why they moved? It could be for the same reason. Have a chat with your ll. You can be very enthusuastic about the house etc but surely any reasonable person looking at those photo's see that its not good. You have more power than you think. The last thing the ll wants is a high turnover of tenants and all the costs that involves.

LadyConstanceDeCoverlet · 01/10/2016 12:47

Phone the police every time they do this and also report the way the neighbours behave when they see you. Eventually the police will cotton on that it's an ongoing campaign on their part.

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