To cut my husband's ****edited by MNHQ**** with blunt scissors?

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So my husband works shifts and this week it is his early shift - he is gone from the house by 5am. I came down this morning to find he had left his iPhone on the worktop. As I was making breakfast for DC's I pressed the home button on his phone to check the time and saw an unread message from my best friend of 27 years saying "is she in bed yet?".

Now, it's my birthday next week so I thought they were arranging some special surprise for me. So left it as that. Dropped the kids off at school but something was niggling at me, I just had this feeling in my gut. His iPhone has got a passcode which I don't know. On my third attempt, by pure and utter luck, I managed to guess it right and get into his phone. What I have seen has made me sick to my stomach. My "friend" has been sending my husband dirty naked pics of herself - full on legs spread and sex toys involved. There are no replies or conversation from him but then I guess these can be deleted??? I noticed he's saved the pictures to his camera roll also - presumably for quick access. I have no idea if they have met - I can't think straight at the moment it feels like everything is in slow motion

My husband NEVER leaves his phone at home so I suspect this was a mistake. I've currently packed all his bags and I am just about to post the pictures of my "friend" on Facebook with a tag saying "you are welcome to him"

I don't know what to do

She's a nasty woman but it's really fucking disgusting to use words like slag, slut etc - words used in society to make a woman feel bad for having sexuality.

Bloody hell!
For you op

This is horrible for you OP.
I also feel for the OW's husband, the OP's husband is not the only man she has been sending porn to and he will have to face all of their partners too. No wonder the poor man said nothing.

Bloody hell OP, sounds like a bloody nightmare. What a long day you must have had already.

Hopefully he's home and you can confront him.

omg that's awful, your friend is an absolute whore. you husbands a weak pathetic cheat with no morals. I hope you are ok.

I would definitely try and find another way to contact her husband, she obviously got to your OH and told him so he could prepare himself, I wouldn't be surprised if she got on her husbands Facebook too. try and get an email account or phone number too.

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost I hope you would call a man sending pics of himself to lots of women a slag too

The ow already knows she has been found out, polly. Mumsnet or not.

So yes it's v likely she tried to tip off the dh.

They're both shits. This isn't a case where the other woman has never met/ knows nothing about OP. They were best friends! They both deserve a flaming.

What an absolutely awful situation. I don't think I could forgive him after this. I wish you and your dcs well in carving out the best future for you all without your slimy toad of a husband.

She has had 5 kids........

What a pair of utter bastards.

I'm so sorry OP.

Hold your head up high, and leave the pair of them behind in the dust.

I know the OW knows. The point was she might have found out here before the OP contacted her. She also might be following the thread...........

I expect the OP is with her DH now, talking.

onionknight That was a joke 🙄

Of course I would Middle.
Both of them are fully to blame. Him especially. He made the marriage vows. However let's also be clear. OW is not without blame either. This isn't someone who he's picked up in a club, and she doesn't know he's married. Then ow would be totally innocent, but. This is his wife's best friend of 27 years. It's not a 5 minute mate.

Hope you are ok OP and haven't been put off coming on here for support because it's derailed a bit!
I would post an update in relationships as you will get support there too

How awful for you OP

polly then she would know where op got the photos from and not have needed to ask