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AIBU?

To hate the term "boobing" for breastfeeding?

105 replies

legfaced · 26/09/2016 11:04

Just that. What's wrong with calling it breastfeeding/feeding?

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DavidPuddy · 27/09/2016 08:32

I'm with whifflesqueak here.

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EdmundCleverClogs · 27/09/2016 08:40

whifflesqueak, totally agree! Need to coin a similar phrase to 'first world problems' - perhaps 'petty Mumsnet issues'?

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OneForTheRoadThen · 27/09/2016 08:53

Whiffle squeak it's actually shorter just to say 'fed' though and that covers everything.

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Only1scoop · 27/09/2016 08:55

'On the tit' ugh

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GinIsIn · 27/09/2016 08:57

It ranks right up there with people talking about having/wanting "mummy friends" in terms of making my teeth itch. YANBU!

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Eminybob · 27/09/2016 09:00

I have never heard of boobing before. It sounds awful imo.

I remember the first time someone asked me if I was feeding DS myself. I thought Hmm of course I am, who else would be feeding him? Then I realised what they meant.

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purplefizz26 · 27/09/2016 10:33

'Cloth bumming' is the worst, and so bloody smug too!

You use reusable nappies!

To hate the term "boobing" for breastfeeding?
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Only1scoop · 27/09/2016 10:38

Cloth bumming WTF

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purplefizz26 · 27/09/2016 10:41

Yes, cloth bumming Grin

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MrsNuckyThompson · 27/09/2016 10:43

Yanbu. Drives me nuts. I hate seeing people right things like 'he needs a boobie to soothe him to sleep'. Urgh.

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BathshebaDarkstone · 27/09/2016 10:47

AIBU for calling my breasts boobies to DS when he was little? He used to ask for "obeeeeeee" when he wanted a feed! Grin

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purplefizz26 · 27/09/2016 10:47

It's the superiority people give off when they say these things, like they want the world to know what a wonderful parent they are because they 'cloth bum' and 'exclusively feed booby milk' and 'wear their baby' Hmm

You use reusable nappies, you breast feed and use a sling. Grow up!

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Only1scoop · 27/09/2016 10:48

I agree purple I find it really odd

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TotallyOuting · 27/09/2016 10:51

And then again I say to my DD do you want bot bot milk which probably sounds ridiculous to others

Not ridiculous, but it does sound like an unusual choice. To feed your DD arse milk, I mean.

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purplefizz26 · 27/09/2016 10:53

Totally Grin

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KnitsBakesAndReads · 27/09/2016 10:55

purple, I don't get how the language someone uses automatically means they think they're superior? Is saying you're "boobing" really so different to saying you're "breastfeeding" that it must mean you think you're better than someone who's formula feeding? I don't get it.

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Only1scoop · 27/09/2016 10:58

I must admit I would imagine as pp said, someone who uses these phrases to have many 'mummy friends'. I cringe a little every time I hear that also.

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SleepFreeZone · 27/09/2016 10:58

I get it now. It's the assumption the mother is boasting that is the issue more than the word?

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Only1scoop · 27/09/2016 11:00

I'd say the parent who put baby in anything with odd slogans like that on, would be trying to tell people something or other about how they think.

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purplefizz26 · 27/09/2016 11:01

It's the way some people say it in a "look at me" way, often when it isn't even necessary to explain how/what they do when caring for their baby.

I think everyone should feed, change and transport their baby how they want but there is really no need to shout from he rooftops about boobing, wearing and cloth bumming Grin

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Mozfan1 · 27/09/2016 11:05

What's cloth bumming

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ICJump · 27/09/2016 11:06

Arh fuck off. I'll call it what I like. They are my boobs, I'd I'll call what ever the hell I want.

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Fluffsnuts · 27/09/2016 11:47

I say boobie juice, but then I say cow juice too! I'm not going to say "would you like some breast milk" or "would you like to breastfeed" to DS, we say booby or mummy milk or booby juice, or, if he's having cows milk then cow juice or cow milk. If talking to adults I say breastfeeding.

I don't really see what's up with it.

We have many words for many things (sofa, settee, couch, living room, lounge, sitting room) why should anatomy be any different?

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Fluffsnuts · 27/09/2016 11:48

mozfan cloth bumming is using cloth nappies, rather than disposables (or 'sposies!).

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WigelsPigels · 27/09/2016 11:52

In house it's called babish. My 8 year used to say this for wanting his milk. Now we have just kept it going with our 4 month. Breastfeeding out of the house.

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