To not do his washing?

[Hotwaterbottle1]

Separated but sharing a home. As I cook & wash for kids still being doing his. He did not wish to separate but I'm 100% sure. Last few weeks he has done nothing at all to help round the house. Think he is trying to make a point that I'd have to do it myself when he leaves (he refuses to do so right now and we can't afford). He left early yesterday before I got up to go away for the day/night. I knew he was going but not when or when he will return. He has left his work clothes lying in front of washing machine. AIBU to leave them there or is that petty?

Why?

Oh no. What happened? Are you ok?

Why were you the one who had to move?

He was shouting for me to leave over & over and I was intimidated, he has no friends or family nearby, he went on & on about how it was me breaking things up and so I should go. I couldn't take it anymore so left. I'm devastated.

((((((((((Hugs))))))))) :'(

So sorry Hotwater.

At least you can be sure you were right to end things - his behaviour is awful.

At least he'll have to do the cooking now. Are the children still at the house?

If he is threatening you, you need to get the police involved.

go back to the house. do not risk the house.

call the police if he is intimidating.

get legal advice asap regarding the house living situation.

Call the police.

And I'm sorry you are having to deal with this.

I came on to say no don't do his washing...but it's escalated a bit since then.