I would prefer it if there were no grammar schools in my area and would happily send my DCs to the local Academy if this was the case. I am a life long labour voter from a very left wing family.
Unfortunately we live where we live and I can't change the fact that the most academically able children go to one of the local grammars. My DS goes to a large state primary school which streams the children into two higher ability classes and two lower ability classes from the start of Y5.
Every year around 40% of the year group go on to a grammar school. The ones who have just missed out take an entrance test to attend an out of catchment state school which reserves 20% of places to children who have passed the test.
Another group of children will be sent to a private school.
The ones who can't pass the 11+ or the selection test and whose parents can't afford or don't wish to go private go to the local academy.
So the local academy has become the last resort school. ( even though it's a really good school in a very nice affluent area)
DS is in all of the top sets within the higher stream and because most of his friends are working towards the 11+ he wants to too. If he passes he will go to a grammar school even though I don't really support the idea of them. I'm not bothering with the selection test for the other school as I can't see the point of travelling out of catchment when we have a perfectly good school on our doorstep which I know works well with bright children.
My big problem will come with my DD. She struggles academically and is in the bottom set for everything. She has no SEN that have been diagnosed ( she had a difficult start in life and we were told to expect learning difficulties) but she clearly struggles with learning. The local academy will not be the place for her as she will get lost and even more behind her peers in such large classes.
We are currently looking at our finances to see if we can afford a private secondary education for her.
So when it comes to my children's education I'm afraid I have indeed become a complete and utter hypocrite!